I am one of six siblings. We all were raised in the same home, ours was a close knit,multigenerational family. Five of us while, while not building lily white incident free lives, non the less have been successful,raising children, paying our taxes, not being in need of any social programs, other than short term unemployment, owning property,and in one case a highly profitable business.
Except one brother. He has never held a normal job, probably at 60 years has not worked enough quarters for social security. Is addicted to alcohol,uses other illicit drugs to excess, has been in and out of jail and prison.
He was raised with the same strict but loving family as the rest of us. Why the difference? Some folks are just broken,but that doesn't make them trash!