OneEyedDiva, tell us about your holiday traditions

CinnamonSugar

A Quiet American
Hi, @OneEyedDiva ... just wondering...

Does Islam have a celebration of light during this time of year? Christians have Christmas, Judaism has Hanukkah, Hindus have Diwali. How about Muslims?

Or do you have a personal way to celebrate? Looking forward to hearing from you.
 

As I've mentioned on the forum before, I was born and raised as a Christian. I accepted Islam at around age 47. I have fond memories of being excited to see what I'd get and later in life, decorating the tree and putting presents under it for my little boy. They had to be wrapped in shiny gift wrap and have big bows on top. Even though we no longer celebrate Christmas, I still enjoy seeing the decorations, especially the trees and houses decorated with lights.

Muslims celebrate the EID after the holy month of Ramadan ends. The EID is a three day celebration during which the EID prayer is performed in the morning. This past year, the EID prayer was held in a large park. We wear our finery, gather to partake of feasts and entertainment, especially for children and exchange gifts IF we choose. Gift giving is not mandatory and even simple gifts given from the heart are appreciated.

I remember in 2002, we participated in the EID celebration for children that was held at a Chuck E Cheese, almost an hour away. The venue sponsored by a masjid in Newark, N.J.,was reserved for us. We took our youngest grandchildren and they had a ball. They got free tokens to use for the games and had pizza and drinks. It was fun to see them be able to rip, run and play in a safe environment.

Another year, my husband sponsored the EID feast at his store. Family members, his customers and even those who wandered in off the street were free to partake of the copious amounts of food provided. A couple of years before he died, we celebrated with a congregation in Richmond, Virginia. Since my husband passed in 2018, I haven't participated in any celebrations. Thank you for your interest.
 
You're welcome, of course @CinnamonSugar. Also, after I met my (half) sister, brother and a whole "new" set of family members who are Christians, my husband and I became a part of my sister's tradition...her fabulous holiday dinners. For almost 20 years, we went for Christmas and other holiday festivities. My husband has an incredibly large family, even larger than ours, with good cooks, but he always wanted to be at my sister's house for those dinners. Between the decorations for each holiday, the place settings and food, my sister would make Martha Stewart look like an amateur.

I think it was Christmas 2016, my husband couldn't go and I found myself feeling very awkward while watching everyone else exchange presents. Of course, because we don't celebrate, I brought nothing and they knew not to buy me anything (although my sister would slip me a little welcome gift). So coming up on Christmas the next year, I told my sister we would gladly come for New Years celebrations, but we would no longer come at Christmas. She didn't like it, but I stuck to my guns. Maybe the awkward feeling was more noticeable because my husband wasn't there. So I skipped the next year and in 2018, my husband died two days before Christmas.

Not an issue anymore because my sister now lives with her son and doesn't host those big dinners anymore.
 

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