Our Country Has To Heal Now After the Events of Last Week

Ruthanne

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I know many Americans are hurting and reeling from the events of last week. In Dallas yesterday people of all colors came together to support the fallen police officers. Those police officers had been helping the protesters to protest safely.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/jul/08/dallas-police-shooting-video-vigil

There was a vigil in Dallas yesterday for the fallen officers.

There were vigils nationwide for Dallas:

https://www.rt.com/usa/350287-vigils-nationwide-dallas-officers/

Leaders are calling for Unity now.
 

I get a feeling that there is a tiny bit of adjustment going on in the attitudes of both the police and especially the communities. Like with Ferguson, terrible rioting, but this time and even with the video of Mr. Castile's death, an incredible calm. I hope the calm prevails and there is a true coming together and talk and change.

I do think though that the NRA has really revealed its true nature (silence when the gun carriers are killed 'because they have guns'). They're willing to support taking the money of those black buyers, but not willing to stand up for them when those purchases get them killed.
 
I get a feeling that there is a tiny bit of adjustment going on in the attitudes of both the police and especially the communities. Like with Ferguson, terrible rioting, but this time and even with the video of Mr. Castile's death, an incredible calm. I hope the calm prevails and there is a true coming together and talk and change.

I do think though that the NRA has really revealed its true nature (silence when the gun carriers are killed 'because they have guns'). They're willing to support taking the money of those black buyers, but not willing to stand up for them when those purchases get them killed.

Mr. Castile was not killed because he carried a gun.. He was killed because he was a Black man carrying a gun... despite he was doing do legally.. Why sugar coat it... He would not have been killed if he were White. This country suffers from a deep cancer.. I am doubtful it can be cured.
 

I get a feeling that there is a tiny bit of adjustment going on in the attitudes of both the police and especially the communities. .... an incredible calm. I hope the calm prevails and there is a true coming together and talk and change......
Yes. Me too.
 
Mr. Castile was not killed because he carried a gun.. He was killed because he was a Black man carrying a gun... despite he was doing do legally.. Why sugar coat it... He would not have been killed if he were White. This country suffers from a deep cancer.. I am doubtful it can be cured.


I get your point, but can it be denied that if he hadn't had that gun, if he'd just handed over his id, maybe that neurotic cop wouldn't have pulled the trigger? Unfortunately we will never know. And all that's left is to marvel at his girlfriends presence of mind in that horrible moment.
 
I get your point, but can it be denied that if he hadn't had that gun, if he'd just handed over his id, maybe that neurotic cop wouldn't have pulled the trigger? Unfortunately we will never know. And all that's left is to marvel at his girlfriends presence of mind in that horrible moment.


I believe the victim was in the process of reaching for his wallet to produce his ID... and told the cop that was what he was doing... if he were white, would this have happened?
 
There have been some shooting of police officers since the Dallas police shootings. I heard that on CNN. I hope our country will take this time to look at the problems we have and find answers and also have some spiritual healing after all that has happened.
 
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I believe the victim was in the process of reaching for his wallet to produce his ID... and told the cop that was what he was doing... if he were white, would this have happened?



I've watched the video too and I've heard all the talk about it and I'm not denying that what you're describing is a distinct possibility. I'm just saying that no one has a crystal ball to say definitively that it wouldn't have gone a bit different if he hadn't said that he had a gun as he was reaching for his wallet. (I think the ACME Crystal Ball Distribution Company went out of business about the same time that Wile E. Coyote gave up on trying to catch that darn roadrunner.)

A clearer determination on that score would have been easier if the woman had been able to video tape the cops attitude before those horrible moments. And did that cop not wear a camera by the way? I thought all the police had all decided that doing so was a necessity. Does anyone know?

I think I heard that too Ruthanne, about the additional police shootings! And this is in no way a slam on gun owners but I've just gotta say this...people think that having guns and using them makes them stronger and makes their anger an even greater issue and force to be reckoned with, but seriously, it takes a much stronger and more resolute populace in a time like this to NOT use guns and instead to do like Gandhi did and use peace marches and hunger strikes to achieve a noble goal. It seems to me that if those angry folks resort to gunning down anybody, it just reinforces the kind of anxiety and fear that has some police acting like they do. Self control among most human beings seems to be in short supply all too often.

Personally, I'm pretty happy that we have only 17% gun ownership in Canada. I wonder if sometimes knowing that there is a huge abundance of guns around and continually hearing the reasoning that they are needed 'to protect oneself' doesn't encourage more fearfulness and anger and it becomes a vicious cycle.
 
Obama Urges Americans Not to Despair over Divisions After Painful Week...

President Barack Obama, seeking to soothe raw emotions after a former U.S. soldier killed five policemen in Dallas and high-profile police shootings of two

black men in Minnesota and Louisiana, has urged Americans not to view the United States as being riven into opposing groups
.

"First of all, as painful as this week has been, I firmly believe that America is not as divided as some have suggested," Obama, who will cut short his European

trip on Sunday to visit Dallas, told a weekend news conference in Warsaw.

"When we start suggesting that somehow there's this enormous polarization, and we're back to the situation in the '60s, that's just not

true," Obama added. "You're not seeing riots, and

you're not seeing police going after people who are protesting peacefully."


More:

http://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-police-idUSKCN0ZN0MF


 
Mr. Castile was not killed because he carried a gun.. He was killed because he was a Black man carrying a gun... despite he was doing do legally.. Why sugar coat it... He would not have been killed if he were White. This country suffers from a deep cancer.. I am doubtful it can be cured.

I don't think racism is quite the factor people think. A trigger happy cop who lacked discipline and couldn't control his adrenaline probably. Also age. I think age is a big factor these incidents as well. Young people get treated differently. When I had long hippy hair I got stopped more often and treated different. A younger person period is bigger threat period to anyone. Now a senior with gray hair and an older person's hair cut I get much different treatment. Not saying racism doesn't happen but there are other factors involved. And a broken tail light and him matching the description of a robbery suspect did not help but it does not justify shoot first ask questions later.
 
Mr. Castile was not killed because he carried a gun.. He was killed because he was a Black man carrying a gun... despite he was doing do legally.. Why sugar coat it... He would not have been killed if he were White. This country suffers from a deep cancer.. I am doubtful it can be cured.

Well that's not very optimistic, is it? I think we need to try and think more positive about change happening. Have you seen the prayer vigils? Many people want a change to happen. There is peaceful protest going on all over. These people have hope. That's something that there always is..hope. I must say, though, that I have times, too, when I feel things are hopeless just not today.
 
A clearer determination on that score would have been easier if the woman had been able to video tape the cops attitude before those horrible moments. And did that cop not wear a camera by the way? I thought all the police had all decided that doing so was a necessity. Does anyone know?

The St. Anthony's police department, from what I've read, did not wear any cameras. They need to start IMO, and turn them on also.
 
No camera's? Really? You're right, they should all be required to wear camera's. No ifs ands or buts. I think I read somewhere that when camera's were included in officers uniforms, complaints against the police went down.
 
I tend to agree with Ruthanne on this one.
Ironic humor is often misinterpreted.
That's why it is important to use the smileys to help with understanding posts that can be taken several different ways.
 
I believe the victim was in the process of reaching for his wallet to produce his ID... and told the cop that was what he was doing... if he were white, would this have happened?

The victim made some fundamental mistakes, he should have kept his hands in plain sight during the traffic stop, rather than reaching for "something". I don't care who you are, I repeat: do not reach for "something" during a traffic stop! Do not reach into your hip pocket, do not reach into the glove box, do not reach under the seat!

It was the right thing to do, to advise the police officer of his possession of a firearm; unfortunately the timing was off, should have waited until the officer gained control of the stop, that's how police officers "work".

I have worked alongside cops in my over thirty years employment wit a couple large departments....I have also had street cops draw and have their weapons at the ready, on several occasions in my youth.

Always keep hands visible to cops, when in contact with L.E. officers.

Chris Rock presented this message well, in a video clip. It was aimed at those in the Black community, was "comedy", but was also "not comedy":

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQLCF4Tiqg4
 
Throwing construction material at police during a protest won't help heal. 100 arrested and 21 police officers injured from flying objects including pieces of concrete and rebar. A major interstate shut down as well. That's a no no in most cities, the main highways. I saw where the Atlanta police made a line at the I-75 corridor.

http://www.startribune.com/about-100-arrested-in-st-paul-protests/386197981/

And quite frankly shutting down roads like this during the work week might draw attention but will not win over many fans because they simply will be considered the fanatics that turned their trip home or to work into a 3-4 hour journey.
 
Just came across this: http://www.telesurtv.net/english/ne...rling-Video-24-Hours-Later-20160710-0021.html

The man who took the video of Alton Stirling's murder was arrested on his way to his job as an aerospace ground equipment technician at Dobbins Air Reserve Base. Apparently ten police some of them armed with M16's took him into custody for the next 26 hours.....and finally let him go when he paid his parking tickets.

Now that the news cycle is moving on, the effort to begin intimidating the public to prevent future video's has begun?
 
People are firmly entrenched in their own prejudices and opinions.. Sadly, there will be no healing... ...only festering until the next killing or mass murder.
 
Frank Bruni wrote a wonderful essay in yesterday's NY Times Sunday Review section. It's entitled Divided by Race, United by Pain.

It begins:

"THERE aren’t any ready answers for how to end this cycle of bloodshed, these heart-rending images from Louisiana and Minnesota and Texas of a country in desperate trouble, with so much pain to soothe, rage to exorcise and injustice to confront.


But we have choices about how we absorb what’s happened, about the rashness with which we point fingers. Making the right ones is crucial, and leaves us with real hope for figuring this out. Making the wrong ones puts that possibility ever further from reach.


So does a public debate that assigns us different tribes and warring interests, when almost all of us want the same thing: for the killing to cease and for every American to feel respected and safe.

We have disagreements about how to get there, but they don’t warrant the inflammatory headlines that appeared on the front of The New York Post (“Civil War”) or at the top of The Drudge Report (“Black Lives Kill”). They needn’t become hardened battle lines."

Here's a section from the mid-point of the essay:
"Separate, divided: I kept hearing those words and their variants, a report card for America as damning as it was inarguable.


Separate, divided: I kept seeing that in pundits who talked past and over one another, in a din that’s becoming harder and harder to bear.


Separate, divided: I kept thinking of Donald Trump and how he in particular preys on our estrangement and deepens it."

He ends with these paragraphs:

"And then there was Deputy Police Chief Aziz, who is also black. Referring to nationwide instances of excessive police force, he said, “We should be held accountable, and that is what we have a criminal justice system for.”


But of equal importance, he said, was “a real dialogue with the community that we can no longer be separate. We can’t divide ourselves.”


Separate, divided: those words again. They’re our curse right now. Must they be our fate?"
 


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