Butterfly
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- Albuquerque, New Mexico USA
I tend to look at people as individuals with a mind of their own.
Having said that I wouldn't have this kind of expectation/
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"It's just bugging me about her. To me a pastor's wife is like a politician's wife - they should be friendly and outgoing to maintain an amicable public image."
Her own happiness is her 1st. priority. Expecting her to conform to what her husband does for public image sake seems kind of sexist to me. Getting to know her as an individual probably isn't possible since there seems to be a pre conceived notion of what her behavior "should" be.
I agree, Knight. She is a person herself -- not an appendage of the pastor, and I feel it is unfair and, yes, sexist, to expect her to be.