People to talk to about anything.

I had no idea all of you replied to my post,thank you.

I wanted to talk about things that are bothering me in my life,at least for now,then find other things more positive to talk about.

How do you stop feeling the blame for your childrens failures in life?
 

Thank you April.

My kids still live with me so we are able to talk daily. I just didn't have anyone my age to talk to about bad things as well as good.

Hope your day went well.
 
fuzzybuddy said:
Well, you want something to talk about:
I just got my medicare 2017 book- about 131 pages ( page 128 has 24-25 sections)
My pharmacy book 241 (Again some section with multiple same page #)
Aetna 141
That's about 513 pages They contain such pages turners like this chapter, "Inpatient services covered during a non-covered inpatient stay." I'm not going to be a spoiler and tell you who the murderer is.
Aw Hell, why not. It's the ADAP which covers the SHIP, but only in Alabama. Alaska has a BFCC-QIO Program. And there's 48 more states!!!!!!!
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Frankly, Fuzzy, I think you have to be able to speak Swahili or Outer Mongolian to understand that darned book. I read a page or two and then have to go take a nap. Four pages and I'm ready for a good swooning.
 
jujube said:
Frankly, Fuzzy, I think you have to be able to speak Swahili or Outer Mongolian to understand that darned book. I read a page or two and then have to go take a nap. Four pages and I'm ready for a good swooning.
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I am dealing with all these books and info too--our company is forcing us to transfer and manage our own healthcare plans, into the marketplace. Like you, I can only digest a little at a time--once I think I understand something, I find I don't! The out of pockets are ridiculous.
 
fuzzybuddy said:
Well, you want something to talk about:
I just got my medicare 2017 book- about 131 pages ( page 128 has 24-25 sections)
My pharmacy book 241 (Again some section with multiple same page #)
Aetna 141
That's about 513 pages They contain such pages turners like this chapter, "Inpatient services covered during a non-covered inpatient stay." I'm not going to be a spoiler and tell you who the murderer is.
Aw Hell, why not. It's the ADAP which covers the SHIP, but only in Alabama. Alaska has a BFCC-QIO Program. And there's 48 more states!!!!!!!
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I know what you mean, Fuzzy. I'm dealing with my own, and my sister's as well. You need an acronym translator to get through many paragraphs, and a lawyer to get through others. I think they've all got a professional obfuscator on staff -- oh, wait-- that would be THEIR lawyer!
 
Jane said:
I had no idea all of you replied to my post,thank you.

I wanted to talk about things that are bothering me in my life,at least for now,then find other things more positive to talk about.

How do you stop feeling the blame for your childrens failures in life?
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Hi, Jane, and welcome again. Not meant to be a criticism or anything, but when you are replying to someone else's post, go to that post and click on the "reply with quote"
place on the green bar at the bottom. That way, the other person's post appears in the reply box and if you put your reply below that, then everyone can tell which post you are replying to. Otherwise, we can get kinda confused.

About children's failures -- I don't feel guilty about them, really, but I DO feel sad when it happens. And I try to listen in a compassionate way and let them talk it out and be sure they know I love them unconditionally. After all, the goal of raising children is to prepare them to go out and confront life on their own. In experiencing life, everybody is bound to fail once in a while, no matter what. I've had my share of failures, and none of them were my mother's fault.
 
Jane said:
Thank you April.

My kids still live with me so we are able to talk daily. I just didn't have anyone my age to talk to about bad things as well as good.

Hope your day went well.
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Thank you and it did. I'm glad you can still talk to your kids about some things but it does make a difference when you can talk to someone our age that understands. Our ears are always open here when you have the need to talk about something. Just open up.
 
Jane, it might help you to read through some of the subjects in the Forum Support & Suggestions. These discussions will help you learn about how to use this software. As someone mentioned earlier, it would be very helpful if you would hit the Reply With Quote button (on the green bar below the posts on the right side) so that we know to whom you're responding. Hope that helps.
 
Hello Jane, I joined the forum in the middle of October and have enjoyed myself since then. I just look for a topic of my interest express my opinion in a post. Everybody is friendly here.
 

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