People usually repeat things they find pleasure in

[Mr. Ed]

If you like a certain food or just like to eat you will likely continue the tradition to excess, same goes with the types of music you listen to or your favorite of movies and tv shows. What types of people are you attracted to? What is it that fills the void inside of you that makes you happy?
I think all women shapes and sizes are beautiful, however, not all women am I attracted to. Not all men I want to be friends with, I have my likes and dislikes but that makes me unique and I don’t need to be liked in order to like myself.

 

[Mr. Ed]

I am He who chooses to be Me

 

[Paco Dennis]

@Mr. Ed Do you remember when the "Peter Pan Syndrome" was popular? It seemed like it was based on the "Id" which Freud described as being an unconscious but our primary consciousness when we are born. It seeks pleasure first and avoids pain. Peter pan never grows up and out of that . The mature person learns to be able to control the primal urges the arise and subjugates them to accord with social norms and mores. The super ego is the voice in us that tells us what is right and wrong, which can be over ridden by the Id and thus very bad things result. The Ego is the referee in deciding maturely what is the best/rational way to proceed. Does this make sense?