I read the forum less and less these days because I often see rude posts that really upset me. Technically, they’re not bad enough to be removed and may not even violate any rules, but they make the forum experience a lot less enjoyable.
I’ve tried to live with it, but those who post rudely will just keep doing it. I’ve made some permanent bans without receiving any reports, and I’ll continue to do more arbitrary moderations based on my personal judgment.
If you can’t say something nice, it’s better not to say anything at all.
If you can’t be supportive of other members, it’s better not to say anything at all.