Personal Attacks and Rude Posts

[Matrix]

There are more and more personal attacks and rude posts on this board, please feel free to report offensive posts.

This forum doesn't tolerate rude people, they will be removed quickly.

 

[Matrix]

Please understand that I’m the only moderator here, and I rely almost entirely on member reports to keep this forum in order. If no one reports offensive posts, no matter how inappropriate they are, they may go unnoticed.

 

[Matrix]

Receiving more reports on rude posts, thanks everyone for helping out. I may not take actions on every report, but all reports are appreciated and will be taken into considerations for future moderation.

 

[Matrix]

I read the forum less and less these days because I often see rude posts that really upset me. Technically, they’re not bad enough to be removed and may not even violate any rules, but they make the forum experience a lot less enjoyable.

I’ve tried to live with it, but those who post rudely will just keep doing it. I’ve made some permanent bans without receiving any reports, and I’ll continue to do more arbitrary moderations based on my personal judgment.

If you can’t say something nice, it’s better not to say anything at all.

If you can’t be supportive of other members, it’s better not to say anything at all.

 

[Matrix]

If you can’t say something nice, it’s better not to say anything at all.

When a member shares a difficult experience or personal story, they are seeking understanding, support, or wisdom from this community — that is what this forum is here for.

If you cannot offer empathy or helpful input, that’s perfectly fine. However, questioning someone’s honesty, belittling their experience, or responding with cruelty is not acceptable. Such behavior harms others and goes against the core values of this forum.

Disrespectful conduct of this kind will result in a permanent ban without further warning.