Please help me get in a good mood..😗

[Jules]

Watching some comedy helps. I just discovered this comedian. Hope this helps.

That’s what I was going to suggest. It won’t make the problems disappear, though it might help you set them aside for a bit.

 

[Ruthanne]

thank you!!

 

[chic]

I love you @Ruthanne. I hope you'll feel better.

 

[Ruthanne]

I love you @Ruthanne. I hope you'll feel better.

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Thanks honey pie

 

[Gary O']

Live life for the moment and don't look for tomorrow's problems."

Yup

Learned that a few decades ago

Put some words to a photo of mine

 

[Ruthanne]

Thank you you are so kind*

 

[hearlady]

I'm a little late to this party but I'm sending some joy for your season, Ruthanne.



and a big hug!

 

[jujube]

Ra, I don't have much to add to the sentiments above, but I'm sending you a hug. Watch out for the Hugazon truck coming down the street and get it off the front step before the Porch Pirates get there.

 

[bobcat]

Ruthie, I always wrestle with my proclivity to try and fix things, and problems, and it often gets in the way of empathy and just comforting someone who doesn't expect that. I understand that you're sharing your burden with us because you just need friends to give you a big group hug and a little encouragement, so I would just like to offer you my heartfelt support along with all the others.

You are a wonderful person who is dearly loved by so many, and that has to brighten your day just a little. If we were all there to give you a real life personal hug, I'm sure the line would be quite long. Our hearts and hopes are with you every day in all you're dealing with, so I hope that brings a smile to your face, and imparts a little buoyancy. Please take care.

 

[fancicoffee13]

I'm just struggling and in a big crap mood. It's the time of year I lost my little sister to the evil influence of suicide. I'm worried about my dog, my finances (who isn't?), my health and my stupid car problems .

Anything positive or helpful would be greatly appreciated!

I lost my brother the first of December, and my niece in July and someone else is being obstinate especially during Christmas. I decided to get busy. I usually do that because it occupies my mind for a period of time and it gets my mind off of my losses in a productive way. I also do it on purpose because I can't stay in a down mood. Depression is one thing I stay away from. I set my mind on a new hobby or a new book, or a new project that requires time and concentration. So, you need to go for a walk, see an old friend.
Talking to a friend to air things usually helps. Reward yourself. I love rewards like cookies and coffee.