Paco Dennis
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I have read many times how some very wise people have thought it is very healthy to imagine your own death. In my experience, it helps me appreciate LIFE.
I used to think I'd like to die from a heroin overdose since I'd heard that a heroin high is one of the most pleasurable. But with my luck, I'd be allergic to it (like I am with so many things). So now I think just an ordinary (but short!) coma'd be the best.
I have no intent to imagine death as morbid, just one of the facts of life that is 100% true.Knowing that death is inevitable and could come at any time regardless how healthy, active one is i don't care to speculate. i know how to enjoy life and how to get thru the rough spots i don't need think about how, when i will leave this life to appreciate it. Tho i do understand it may be helpful for som, i just don't care to enter that particular labyrinth of thought, i'm too busy living.
i absolutely accept it. i also accept that unless i am the instrument of my own death as i was in 1974, i can't predict how/when it will come to me again so i prefer to spend my time living, tho of course have had the important talks with my kids and i need to update some paperwork that will make things easier for them. Preparing for post mortem realities that will effect loved ones does not require you spend creative energies imagining your death, IMO.I have no intent to imagine death as morbid, just one of the facts of life that is 100% true.I can not understand why/how accepting, facing, a primary fact of LIFE should be shunned?
Not so sure about the Dickinson.Death quotes.....
"That it will never come again is what makes life so sweet" Emily Dickinson
"Death is not the opposite of life but a part of it." Haruki Murakami
"The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time." Mark Twain
Pepper, I'm not 'doolally' enough to do it right now, and besides, them aeroplanes don't half fly high, and the parachute may not open then I might snuff it and not reach 100.ps, @timoc
Do your parachute jump Now. You can always do it again.