In November 2022, I discovered something very strange from my gas/electricity provider. This prompted me in raising a complaint with the ombudsman.
I was hoping for some BREATHING SPACE, while I went through our paperwork to see if there was any evidence of this other energy company being involved.
I was sincerely hoping that the ombudsman service would have at least sent this other energy company, a "Cease and Desist" letter to stop the threats and abuse (as
@hollydolly recommended to me, yesterday).
Needless to say, I've found no paper trails amongst our files. Therefore, as hubby's died, I've no way to find out how he dealt with them.
When I had the courage, I deleted his mobile phone account via Tesco Mobile. On his phone, I'd found no contacts and/or texts regarding this other company. After clearing his possessions and cleared what we had planned to sift through, I took the bull by the horns and dug into his two email accounts.
Once again, I've found no evidence of correspondence of any kind from this other energy company but the usual ones regarding our gas/electricity accounts with our long-term provider.
I then proceeded to delete all accumulated emails, combing through as I went and then terminated the first email account. I then dug into the second one and once more, found nothing.
In July 2022, I contacted the Bereavement group of my energy supplier and they were amazing at helping with the transition from hubby to me. Once this was accomplished, that's when I received a barrage of letters from this other company.
As the one thing that I won't cooperate with anything is when the first text message I received from this other company is exactly what I'd expected A THREAT...
Now, from the ombudsman recommended action, I've contacted my provider and they've now raised an investigation of their own and I was asked if I wanted them to deal with this other company, to which I replied a resounding YES PLEASE? and thankfully they said they will.
After waiting 5 months if no contact from ombudsman I was desperate to get answers but I'm finding myself having to deal with it by myself. Another 10 working days to wait but knowing my provider, they'll get to the bottom of this mess.
Definitely happy to discover I wasn't at fault and neither was hubby, as it seems the errors were with my provider. Although, I definitely out the blame in this other company to have caused so much stress to hubby that I'm in no way surprised that his heart gave up.
In conclusion, I'll keep you updated on whatever I get but it might take a while. This company refused my complaint stating that they haven't had 8 weeks to deal with it. BS as this has been ongoing since July 2019.
When you don't know there's a major problem at hand, we just considered this other company as obnoxiously using aggressive marketing. How am I supposed to know, unless I get help and I feel that I've only begun to get this ombudsman to provide the tiniest bit of hope.
I'd like to thank yous marvellous online friends here at seniorforum dot com. I could write the Cease and Desist letter myself but I feel I'd be opening a can of worms. At the end of the day, I just want peace and quiet to mourn both my beloved son and husband. Thanks heartfelt


This is what I'd expected from the ombudsman. Them to contact to stop the abuse and then contact my provider and dig until the fault or faults were found out. I just wanted BREATHING SPACE for crying out loud.