Question for the Ladies

[debodun]

On your wedding day the groom stands you up. Later you find out he was out drinking the night before with another woman and "forgot" the ceremony. Would you break off permanently with him or forgive him and re-schedule the wedding?

 

[Aunt Marg]

I'd have two words for the bridegroom, bye-bye.

 

[dobielvr]

Yikes that's a tuff one.....how about if he just showed up drunk? lol No other woman.

 

[Pinky]

Adios Amigo!

 

[JustBonee]

Is that a serious question?

 

[Aunt Marg]

Yikes that's a tuff one.....how about if he just showed up drunk? lol No other woman.

In my view he would lack responsibility, so that would be an automatic no-go for me.

I refer to it as setting the stage, where early beginning practices metastasize into more deep rooted problems in the future. Who needs that.

 

[RadishRose]

You're kidding, right?

 

[dobielvr]

You're kidding, right?

No, I'm not kidding. That was his natural state. He could talk and stand.....a functioning alcoholic is what you would call him. Blinded by love, till I couldn't take it anymore.

RIP.

 

[RadishRose]

No, I'm not kidding. That was his natural state. He could talk and stand.....a functioning alcoholic is what you would call him. Blinded by love, till I couldn't take it anymore.

RIP.

Oh Dobie, I am so sorry. I was trying to address the OP, especially with regard to other woman.

 

[Ruthanne]

Good riddance!

 

[debodun]

This question is based on something I read about soccer player George Best.

 

[Butterfly]

I'd dump him so fast it would make his head swim. I believe that when people tell you who they are, you should believe them.

 

[officerripley]

"See ya; wouldn't wanna be ya."

 

[win231]

Any woman desperate or dumb enough to forgive him, deserves him. And she can't complain about him later, either (but she certainly will).
Believe it or not, I know some women like that; they'll make a stupid choice, then go on & on about how men are no good.
No, honey, you're just a fool.

 

[debodun]

They figure they will change him after they are married. That seldom happens.

 

[Judycat]

If you marry a dolt like that be prepared to kick his a** every other day at least.

 

[Della]

In most cases he wouldn't get a second chance, but I can imagine a few cases where he might be forgiven. If he was really young, had been a good and faithful boyfriend for years, was with "friends" the night before the wedding who got him drunker than usual and set him up for a "last fling" and then let him over sleep. What he said later would enter into my decision, too. Properly remorseful? No lame excuses?

Those stag parties have ruined a few promising relationships.

 

[dobielvr]

Oh Dobie, I am so sorry. I was trying to address the OP, especially with regard to other woman.

It's fine...no big deal. I just thought you were talking to me..duh.

 

[funsearcher!]

On your wedding day the groom stands you up. Later you find out he was out drinking the night before with another woman and "forgot" the ceremony. Would you break off permanently with him or forgive him and re-schedule the wedding?

Done and gone

 

[Jules]

I'd have two words for the bridegroom, bye-bye.

I’d have two words, they just wouldn’t be as polite as yours.

 

[win231]

In most cases he wouldn't get a second chance, but I can imagine a few cases where he might be forgiven. If he was really young, had been a good and faithful boyfriend for years, was with "friends" the night before the wedding who got him drunker than usual and set him up for a "last fling" and then let him over sleep. What he said later would enter into my decision, too. Properly remorseful? No lame excuses?

Those stag parties have ruined a few promising relationships.

I've always chuckled at the phrase "Get him drunk" or "Get her drunk." How does anyone force anyone to get drunk?
Well, maybe at gunpoint.......

 

[MarciKS]

Oh yeah...he'd be done for.

 

[Wren]

I'd have two words for the bridegroom, bye-bye.

I’d have two words for him as well, the first starts with F and the second is Off !

 

[Aunt Marg]

I’d have two words for him as well, the first starts with F and the second is Off !

Wren! I never would have guessed you'd let your hair down to that extent.

 

[Chris21E]

Not my type...would not face that situation ever.