Realizing Your Dream

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I grew up in Hershey, PA, home of a few delicious chocolates, but also where the Pennsylvania State Police Academy is located. Shortly after it had opened, I saw a lot of Cadets in training around town and from time to time they would sit with me and we would talk about many things, including the state police. It was after one such conversation that I decided that I wanted to be a State Policeman when I was able to.

My dad was all for it, but not my mom. She was always worried that some bad guy would hurt me. My dad even told her one time, “Don’t worry so much, Marie. He’s not a piece of machinery. He won’t break.” Then dad and I would kind of nervously laugh, but not mom.

I would from time to time try to sneak up to the Academy, but would always get caught. I came to know the one guard personally and we became friends on a first name basis. Every now and then, if there were no classes, he would show me around or at least something different than the last time. I told him many times of my ambition and he suggested that I study some form of Marshall Arts. After talking it over with my dad, we visited a local M/A training center and spoke with the Sensei. He suggested that I take 1 year of Karate and 1 year of Kung Fu. Dad agreed and so that’s what I did. My favorite of the two was Kung Fu because it taught me discipline and patience, something that I didn’t have of either.

During my senior year of high school, I enlisted in the Marines. After that was over, I registered to go to the local community college for 2 years and studied Criminal Justice, which went well and I graduated with an Associate’s degree. Then, I decided the time was right, so I applied to the state police. My first interview was over the phone. He just asked me some routine questions and at the end said that he would be back in touch within 2 weeks. Well, let me tell you, it was a very long 2 weeks, but I did get a call to come visit the Academy. After the tour was over, he asked me for questions and I had plenty to ask. After all that was over, he again told me that he would be back in touch, but never said when.

I waited almost 3 weeks for the next call. This person was a female, which for the time era, kind of surprised me. She didn’t introduce herself on the phone as being a state policewoman, so I was unsure of her position. My dad, “Why didn’t you ask her?” I told him that it was all that I could do to remember my own name. When I went for the next interview, there were 4 other people sitting in the room. The interview last 45 minutes and then I was sent home with no indication of when I may hear back from them.

A month went by and I felt like I was being tormented. My dad suggested that I call, but I thought that to be a bad idea. After all, I learned to be patient. Finally, I received a letter telling me that I was being invited to join the best state police in the country. Then it went on explaining a lot of details, including when my orientation date was going to be, starting salary, benefits and so on. In the letter was also a list of items that would be required for me to purchase for using while going through my Cadet training.

It was almost like people say dying is. The first 24 years of my life rapidly flashed in front of me.

It definitely was my “dream come true.”

Now, how about you? Has any of your dreams come true?
 

I am always fascinated by people like you who know what they want to do a an early age.

I spent 31 wonderful years in the Navy, but I never really had a definitive plan or dream. It seems like it "just happened" as I took what always seemed like the next logical step as the years progressed. My career progressed right into another 14 years as a civilian electronics engineer doing almost the same thing as I did in the Navy. Maybe some unseen force was doing the plan for me.

My son was like you, he knew that he wanted to be a High School teacher very early. He pursued that goal and is very happy with his choice. He teaches, and coaches, in the same High School that he graduated from. My daughter started out studying art in college, but a gentle reminder from me that she needed to be able to earn a living got her to change over to Industrial Design which blends art and engineering. From there she drifted into the wrist watch industry where she has done very well. She designed children's watches for Disney for the first two years. Some unseen force was planning for her as well.
 
I dropped my dreams of being an Air Force pilot and then an airline pilot when I found out my allergies would keep me out of the air program. I then chose not to pursue my dream of being a director/cinematographer when I realized how competitive it is to get into that field. I ended up going into software engineering because I enjoyed programming and it came easy to me. I then switched to technical support when I found out I enjoyed working with customers more than just working with code.

I've never seen my career as a dream, to me it's more an end to a means or a necessary evil for living in our society. I've had some jobs I've loved and some I've really disliked but my off work life has been far superior overall.
 

No dream for me.

My career was sort of like rock wall climbing I just kept looking for the next handhold as I worked my way up the wall.

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The climb was worth it and retirement at age 51 has been the biggest accomplishment of my working life.

I suppose that my dream come true has been living a quiet life without the hassle of a job.

I'm almost healed sometimes it's hard to imagine that I ever worked for a living.
 
Growing up, I was fascinated by submarines. I read almost every novel written about them. Also, my uncle served on the USS Parch, the most decorated sub in WW 2. As a Field Engineer, I flew to Scotland and was able to go out for tests on two Fleet Ballistic Missile subs.
I was also interested in flying, and helped my cousin rebuild a 1947 light aircraft. I figured that if I was doing all that work, I had to get a license to fly the plane. I got my private pilots license in 1972, and in the years that followed, got instrument, commercial and instructor ratings.
I also got to fly some WW 2 airplanes, and a Korean War MiG-15 jet. To celebrate my 80th birthday, and to put a cap on my flying career, I flew a P-51 WW 2 fighter aircraft.
Some people ,after retiring, say, "I could have". I sit on our porch, and say, "I did it".IMG_6355.JPG
 
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No dream for me. Lots of jobs over 4 decades. Some good some bad. I've had moments of liking my job but it didn't last long... something usually ruined it, like a bad boss or a new company taking over. I can tolerate a bad job if the boss is ok to work for.
 
We married young...Had 2 babies and hubby had to work....We only had one car, so I stayed home...Living in an apartment for 7 years..
Finally we went to another State and found a new home....Kids then were going to school....I went to work....Then we came back
and bought a home....I then worked in a High School as a Secretary ,.for 25 years....It was a very nice experience working with 2 other
Secretaries in the Main Office...We became very great friends...Only one Secretary passed away a couple of years ago and my other
friend moved to another State...I also still have my friend that I met 35 years ago at the Lake with our daughter's when they were young...
I never had a dream....I just had wonderful friends and family....Now at our age, our kids have kids and we see them most of the time...
If that's a dream, So Be It!!!!
 
Great, great story, 9
Loved every word of it


I'm still living my dream

...and writing about it as fast as I can

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What Kinds of things do you write - book, articles journals? I write books. Still living that dream too. My first dream was to become an artist. But for a little poor girl living in the boonies, there was no way to do that. In school I could either take music or art. I loved to sing, so I took music. And to be honest I didn't know if an art instructor could teach me what I wanted to know. It took until I was 51 to start painting. I found step-by-step instructions on Oregon Public Broadcasting. Jerry Yarnell taught me to paint. I recorded the sessions and went over and over them and practiced and repracticed. I have an online gallery of some of them, thanks to my husbands tech skills. He built a web site to display my work. At present I'm working on cover art for my current novel. I'm also an author - one of the subsequent dreams, hoping to save the world. Here's a link to the painting I did of my husband when he was young. My painting of my husband when he was young.
 
What Kinds of things do you write - book, articles journals? I write books. Still living that dream too. My first dream was to become an artist. But for a little poor girl living in the boonies, there was no way to do that. In school I could either take music or art. I loved to sing, so I took music. And to be honest I didn't know if an art instructor could teach me what I wanted to know. It took until I was 51 to start painting. I found step-by-step instructions on Oregon Public Broadcasting. Jerry Yarnell taught me to paint. I recorded the sessions and went over and over them and practiced and repracticed. I have an online gallery of some of them, thanks to my husbands tech skills. He built a web site to display my work. At present I'm working on cover art for my current novel. I'm also an author - one of the subsequent dreams, hoping to save the world. Here's a link to the painting I did of my husband when he was young. My painting of my husband when he was young.
Wow, that is a great painting, and you certainly had something to work with.
 
Thanks Pecos and Gary O.

Yes, my husband was/is an attractive guy. I did not know him when this picture was taken. He was with his second wife at the time. It was at Oxbow Park in Oregon. He was 27 in that picture. I met him when he was 42.
 

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