You’ve packed a lot of assumptions into this thread, many of them based on internet anecdotes, selective history, or outright speculation rather than lived experience or verifiable data.
I spent a career in uniform, and I’ll address a few points directly.
First, recruiting and retention. Toxic leadership does exist, and the military has spent years trying to identify and remove it. But to claim it’s protected based on gender or minority status is simply not accurate. Leaders are evaluated constantly, and careers end quickly for those who fail their people or their mission. Retention issues today are far more complex: a strong civilian job market, medical disqualifications, family strain, and changing expectations of younger generations all play a role.
Second, the idea that the military is just a tool for “crony capitalism” ignores how budgeting actually works. Yes, there is waste in government spending, including defense. Those of us who served have complained about it for decades. But the same military you dismiss is also responsible for deterrence, disaster response, freedom of navigation, and alliances that have prevented large-scale wars between major powers for generations.
Third, on veterans and care: you’re right that the system isn’t perfect. Many of us have fought hard to improve the VA and benefits. But it’s not accurate to say veterans are ignored while all money goes to weapons. Both things can be true at once: a large defense budget and ongoing efforts, sometimes flawed, to care for those who served.
Fourth, the idea that military service is just for the “impoverished and uneducated” is outdated and frankly insulting. Today’s force is highly trained, technically skilled, and increasingly educated. Many join for opportunity, yes, but also for purpose, structure, and service to something larger than themselves.
Fifth, history. Claims about WWII being a “scam,” or foreknowledge of Pearl Harbor being ignored, fall into well-worn conspiracy territory that historians have repeatedly examined and rejected. You’re free to question policy decisions, but dismissing the entire conflict as profit-driven ignores the reality of fascism, global aggression, and the millions who suffered under it.
Finally, “war is a scam” and “9/11 was retaliation” are oversimplifications that erase both the complexity of geopolitics and the agency of those who carried out those attacks. Foreign policy can and should be debated, but reducing everything to a single cause or motive doesn’t hold up.
You’re asking questions, which is fair. But if you want serious answers, you need to ground your arguments in credible sources and be willing to listen to people who have actually served, rather than assuming bad faith across the board.