all those things aside from the walking to the door situ... happens to me... and I question it just like you...
You can guarantee that when someone I'm not expecting knocks the door, that's when I'm on the loo...
The phone rings so often when I'm asleep..I unplug the landline now and swtich off the iphone ... I even have to unplug Aklexa, cus sure as eggs are eggs it'll make an announcement about something as soon as I drop off to sleep..
I drop stuff so often these days..just as you describe, I put it down to the OA in my fingers, and maybe I;m not gripping things enough but I don't think that really is the cause.. and you're absolutely right about dropping something, not finding it after a search, and it appearing right in your eye view, later...like some poltergeist is playing tricks !
What is even stranger to me now.. is how is this happening to other people as well as me..