Senior Roommates - Golden Girls Situation for both Genders

McIntyre said:
NOrthern Virginia. I am seeking a senior adult (late 60s - ) to do light housework in lieu of rent for a 1 bedroom/private bath. I do not choose gender. I do have pets and allow people to bring pets. And, I cannot let non resident into house due to insurance.

However, here's a good one....the feedback I receive is either negative (I am taking advantage of someone) or the person is much younger (no, I am specific about senior citizens, Not Gender). Further, they dont like dogs or cats. I understand the last two reasons. But, am not taking advantage of anyone. I believe in free will and personal agency. Nobody is forced to do anything. I do honestly believe there is an older senior individual out there desperate for a place to live within a tight budget; who has an animal; and does not have much in common with younger people or other senior citizens. Also, this individual is pretty smart.
You can live in an senior adult community where everyone competes for most money, men, and dates; talk about grandchildren or live with me; keep a house in common areas reasonably tidy. (Not terribly hard) And, keep your pet friend who may or may not be housebroken. You are an adult here, not old. I respect your capabilities and experience.

Yipes, I dont write well.
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I find myself seeking a similar arrangement after last two years caring for Mother. I had hoped to stay in San Diego but returned to NY Area where my customer base is. I had great roommates years ago but last couple were problems. I am keeping my options open and asking people I trust if they know anyone.
 

McIntyre said:
NOrthern Virginia. I am seeking a senior adult (late 60s - ) to do light housework in lieu of rent for a 1 bedroom/private bath. I do not choose gender. I do have pets and allow people to bring pets. And, I cannot let non resident into house due to insurance.
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Compliments to you. We have a retired couple, the wife is 78 and her husband is 80. They are not residing here as you are seeking, but what they do is to keep our large garden pruned, mowed, tidied and most presentable.

We met them through our church, they mentioned how difficult it was to get by on a limited pension so when I said that I needed a gardener they were up for it, and what an excellent job they do too.
 
I used to know someone who had Parkinson. He lived alone, but eventually had to hire a home helper, pay salary plus free room and board.
 
I've been in the hospital right now going on my second week. My apartment is sitting empty which is a good thing. I don't how it would be with a roommate. Although my health is going down, and I have been tempted to get a room mate for a little help and companionship. There's nothing better than the feeling of walking into your own place and the peace and quiet. I'll be glad to get out of here and enjoy it again.
 
MIL moved out of a studio with kitchen, garage, balcony ALF to move in with a lady she met at the ALF. Apartment complex set up for room mate situations with two bedrooms and attached baths, kitchen, living/room, pool, ... . All was well for at least the first two weeks all was fine. Then the a/c,cable channel, clean up wars started. Nothing like two opinionated 90+ year old teenagers.
 
It sounds like McIntyre wants a live-in maid without paying for one. On the "Golden Girls", they all worked to upkeep the home, and they all eventually owned a share of the home.
 

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