this is mine... .not a bland colour
. when my car was written off ..I had no car, so I had to quickly find another car. Bear in mind I was in hospital for 2 weeks of that...
When I came out I just spent a couple of hours every day looking at cars for sale in my area.. and reading the reviews of the various showroom and garages....and then reading the reviews on the cars themselves...cost of Insurance , common causes of faults etc..and I boght my car within 3 weeks of the accident
I paid cash for my car..
I did this all by myself..I had no-one to help me do it.. just like you deb.. and I did it at age 70...
My point is, if I can do it.. I'm a senior like you.. no-one to give me advice on what to buy.. .. and I managed to do it while recovering from a serious crash and plastic surgery......
You can find all sort of reasons to talk yourself out of it... but I think that throwing good money afer bad on the car you have now is not sensible..