I took pics of my car in a different place with no trees above and on an overcast day.
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Deb, I truly see no reason why you don't keep the car. It runs, it looks pretty good, and if you like it, do what you want. Do not worry for one second about what other people think of it. Now, if getting a new, technologically up-to-date car gives you a thrill, do it. It will be a safer ride, that's for sure. My Subaru had tons of this and that on it, and I liked it, even though I never even glanced at the owner's manual. Somehow I figured stuff out and what I didn't know, didn't hurt me.
I would consider getting some blind spot mirrors that stick on your side mirrors.
My car is a 2004 Honda CRV, 108K miles on it. Yeah, it's not going to win any beauty contests, and I just spent $3K getting things fixed (a lot more expensive here than in PA), but I'm fine with it. It's not worth it to me to buy a brand new car with the latest Subaru tech on it, even though I love that stuff. This car has belonged to 3 generations of women in my immediate family. It stays. I consider it to be an heirloom.
I remember when my stepmother was driving a 19 year old car which she *loved with a passion*. My dad said, nope, too old and bought her a new car. She was not happy, and I don't blame her. She's an adult and if she wanted to keep her car, that was her business only.