Should women be allowed to go topless?

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Avon said:
I had similar, a selfie from a forum lady and the following week a picture of her sitting in church. I would add, considering what has been posted about men, that not once in 20 years on forums have I heard of a man posting any material of such nature to a woman poster.
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I've heard of the men posting these types of photos, and not just on forums. It happens significantly more frequently than the other way around.
 
PeppermintPatty said:
Very true. I’m just not interested in getting PM’s from men.
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Ok PeppermintPatty, I understand, I really do. But maybe that should have been made clear to me beforehand, before the over 75 posts we have sent each other.

To be clear though, and to avoid future confusion, is responses from men here in the public forums ok? If so, then we can move on then.
 
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https://www.silversingles.com.au/di...MI18Le0pPEgAMVBEYrCh3brwLXEAAYASAAEgIee_D_BwE

https://www.datemyage.com/lpf26/?af...MI18Le0pPEgAMVBEYrCh3brwLXEAAYAyAAEgJTZ_D_BwE

I do not believe a word these two men are saying.
I think there are psychological problems here.
My advice... get some help and stop sending PMs to women on the forum.
Perhaps you guys are lonely… if that is the case two sites for elderly men dating provided above or I always say, the best antidote for loneliness is doing some useful volunteer work.
 
Jamala said:
https://www.silversingles.com.au/di...MI18Le0pPEgAMVBEYrCh3brwLXEAAYASAAEgIee_D_BwE

https://www.datemyage.com/lpf26/?afid=1923141022&subafid=adid_631486209788|kwd_over 70 dating|net_g|pos_|geo_1000676|type_b&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI18Le0pPEgAMVBEYrCh3brwLXEAAYAyAAEgJTZ_D_BwE

I do not believe a word these two men are saying.
I think there are psychological problems here.
My advice... get some help and stop sending PMs to women on the forum.
Perhaps you guys are lonely… if that is the case two sites for elderly men dating provided above or I always say, the best antidote for loneliness is doing some useful volunteer work.
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It happens more than you think.

"…Johnstonbaugh, a sociology doctoral student, had more than 1,000 college students from seven universities fill out an online survey asking them about their rationale for sexting. She looked at two primary motivators: outside pressure to share and a desire for empowerment via sext ― in other words, sending a nude to boost their confidence.

The most common reason for sending a nude or semi-nude pic ― to turn the receiver on ― was roughly the same for women (73%) and men (67%). Similarly, 40% of women and men responded that they sent a photo to satisfy the request of the recipient. The latter point ― that men were just as gung-ho to give into a request as women ― surprised Johnstonbaugh. “It appears as though men are also feeling external pressures to share,”"

https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/sexting-women-and-men-study_l_5d5c504ee4b0f667ed69c8d6
 
Magna-Carta said:
Ok PeppermintPatty, I understand, I really do. But maybe that should have been made clear to me beforehand, before the over 75 posts we have sent each other.

To be clear though, and to avoid future confusion, is responses from men here in the public forums ok? If so, then we can move on then.
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Hey Magna,
I really didn’t want to hash this out on open forum but I shall.

You PM’d me about a member you were concerned about. I answered your questions as best I could, trying not to get into a gossip mode but you kept PM’ing me. I just stopped answering then and a long time past but then you started back up again to tell me something. From there I don’t wish to say where the conversation went but I did inform you that I didn’t wish to participant in the conversation any more and to not hurt your feeling said it was ok it you still wanted to PM me so today you sent me photos . I don’t know what they are about.

I shouldn’t need to say this but will. Communicating to a bunch of members of this forum is far easier for me than trying to converse with one. I’m just not good at it and it isn’t just because you’re a male. I have a difficult time having a one on one relationship with any gender.

Due to the initial subject matter and how you approached me, it would have been completed heartless of me to say I didn’t want to listen. I don’t think it’s a good idea to state the real reason why these PM’s didn’t stop but I am a woman and it’s MY prerogative to change my mind about wishing to converse, and I did.
 
PeppermintPatty said:
Hey Magna,
I really didn’t want to hash this out on open forum but I shall.

You PM’d me about a member you were concerned about. I answered your questions as best I could, trying not to get into a gossip mode but you kept PM’ing me.
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That's not quite how it went. Without giving too much away, you had similar concerns when I raised them with you. You also asked me for something specific about it, after your 3rd request I gave you what you requested. You pretty much matched me post for post. I have 39 PM's from you, as our discussions developed.

PeppermintPatty said:
I just stopped answering then and a long time past but then you started back up again to tell me something.
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We were responding to each other, and each other's thoughts on the matter as a whole. As I look over those posts again now, I don't see any significant break in our communication. I did see an earlier break from our communications. A break of 8 days was created by me; I can see the date of when that happened. It was created because I needed it. You then contacted me to ask me if I'm ok as you haven't heard from me.

Later, things moved on to a different subject, and you responded positively. Again there was no break in our communications other than the one i created.

PeppermintPatty said:
From there I don’t wish to say where the conversation went but I did inform you that I didn’t wish to participant in the conversation any more and to not hurt your feeling said it was ok it you still wanted to PM me so today you sent me photos . I don’t know what they are about.
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As I thought I saw it, the conversation moved on to personal experiences, which for me as challenging as they were, I mainly saw in a positive light, and I learned a lot from those experiences. You said you didn't want to participate in that anymore, and you gave your reasons. I respected that. The conversation then moved on to something completely different.

The photos that you mention above, they were based on where our conversation ultimately moved to, the countryside, and the benefits of waking in it.

PeppermintPatty said:
I shouldn’t need to say this but will. Communicating to a bunch of members of this forum is far easier for me than trying to converse with one. I’m just not good at it and it isn’t just because you’re a male. I have a difficult time having a one on one relationship with any gender.
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Thank you for telling me that, this information you tell me now is new, and I respect that.

PeppermintPatty said:
Due to the initial subject matter and how you approached me, it would have been completed heartless of me to say I didn’t want to listen.
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I think we spent a lot of time equally listening to each other, and I appreciate that. We discovered we had the same experiences on a particular subject matter.

PeppermintPatty said:
I don’t think it’s a good idea to state the real reason why these PM’s didn’t stop but I am a woman and it’s MY prerogative to change my mind about wishing to converse, and I did.
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A particular subject matter did stop, we moved to something else, and of course, that is fine. I see it as anyone's prerogative to change their mind, regardless of gender.

The last message received started with your thank you to me. And how walking is good. Ending with wishing me a good holiday. My last post was regarding walking in the countryside, and the countryside in general. Nothing was said after that. Your request to stop PM's was made publicly here. No PM's have been sent out of respect of that request.
 
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Jamala said:
Quite frankly ... I don't believe a word of it !!!!
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And quite frankly, I am not concerned what you believe. The posts, however, remain 100% fact, or I would not have posted them, finding the effort to post on forums is at best a right drag and posting something that has no basis in fact is a non-starter in my life.
 
Avon said:
And quite frankly, I am not concerned what you believe. The posts, however, remain 100% fact, or I would not have posted them, finding the effort to post on forums is at best a right drag and posting something that has no basis in fact is a non-starter in my life.
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Sometime age has a way of shutting down what we accept, deciphering real from false. Some folks are set in their ways there is no room for debate that could actually change minds/viewpoints.
 
My opinion is that it is a non-issue as I doubt that many women would want to nip to the shop topless anyway, (see what I did there? 🤫;)).

Anyways, I do think it is quite cute that men might think that women are still told what to do - "allowed" indeed :ROFLMAO:

Sorry @bobcat48, no offence intended but ... allowed 🤭 🙂
 
Trish said:
My opinion is that it is a non-issue as I doubt that many women would want to nip to the shop topless anyway, (see what I did there? 🤫;)).
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Nail on the head, @Trish ... I can't even describe how it annoys me that it's always men I see asking this question. And making it even worse is calling it an equal rights issue. "Should women be ALLOWED to devalue themselves so pervs can get their jollies?" You wouldn't believe how much I've stopped myself from saying in this thread. :eek:
 
Age old story … some men get old…

Can’t handle it …

Make up stories…

To give themselves a little boost…

Some even dye their hair…

And wear ridiculous stuff….

To try and re-capture a speck of youth…

Some have fantasies of women pursuing them…

Some even try to lobby for women’s rights…

Where were they when women fought

For the vote?
 
Jamala said:
Age old story … some men get old…

Can’t handle it …

Make up stories…

To give themselves a little boost…

Some even dye their hair…

And wear ridiculous stuff….

To try and re-capture a speck of youth…

Some have fantasies of women pursuing them…

Some even try to lobby for women’s rights…

Where were they when women fought

For the vote?
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Probably down the hairdressers getting a perm and an eyebrow wax ;)
 
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Jamala said:
Age old story … some men get old…

Can’t handle it …

Make up stories…

To give themselves a little boost…

Some even dye their hair…

And wear ridiculous stuff….

To try and re-capture a speck of youth…

Some have fantasies of women pursuing them…

Some even try to lobby for women’s rights…

Where were they when women fought

For the vote?
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Perhaps you should join the new forum that has started up in the USA as members became disenchanted with the views of old ladies on existing over 50 forums. Pictures galore on there of young females totally naked, strange, I never bother looking. Still, they never seem to argue, so perhaps a few could learn from that aspect of posting.
 
CallMeKate said:
Then they can use magazines and the Internet and not think of ways to get a free peep show from real women while trying to appear all noble and calling it a woman's right. There are also pills. 💊🔵
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Don't you like men looking at you and appreciating your appearance? I am sure it happens more than you think it does.

I enjoy looking at all people, but admittedly women more than men. And I much prefer looking at "real women" to what's in the magazines or internet. I do my best not to show it, but I do smile a lot.

I have been mostly joking about the topless thing her, but I still enjoy seeing it when it happens, maybe my smile is a bit bigger then. Again, I prefer a real woman, and she need not be young to get a smile.
 
Alligatorob said:
Don't you like men looking at you and appreciating your appearance? I am sure it happens more than you think it does.

I enjoy looking at all people, but admittedly women more than men. And I much prefer looking at "real women" to what's in the magazines or internet. I do my best not to show it, but I do smile a lot.

I have been mostly joking about the topless thing her, but I still enjoy seeing it when it happens, maybe my smile is a bit bigger then. Again, I prefer a real woman, and she need not be young to get a smile.
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No. The opinion of random men on my appearance doesn't interest me at all 🤷‍♀️

Oops! Just notice you were answering @CallMeKate. :)
 
Alligatorob said:
Don't you like men looking at you and appreciating your appearance? I am sure it happens more than you think it does.
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That's off topic because I'm always dressed, and dressed quite well. Prancing/bouncing around with my top off (which is what this thread is about) knowing that some salivating old pervs are going to be.... well no, I'm NOT going to go there, and you're not gonna make me, Sir Rob! :giggle:
 
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