Should you ask someone's permission before kissing them?

I don't want any strangers coming up and hugging or kissing me. I think kissing is pretty rare anyway with people who aren't intimate or family. I'm okay with a hug from some, depending on who they are and the situation, but never from a total stranger. IMO, if you have to ask about the kiss, it ruins the intention, and if you have to ask....just don't do it. :rolleyes: :kiss:
 
I would be all for a stranger giving a hug in place of a handshake as long as they don't have flying crabs.
 
I'm a bit reserved but getting less so as I get older. I think permission is asked with the eyes. Before I kiss someone, even my son, I first look directly into the eyes and if the look I get back is 'please don't', then I don't. I only ever kiss on the cheek though.

Hugs I give as comfort when words won't do. Same approach. Some people don't want close physical contact and they tell you in their body language. I certainly do. I turn into a metaphorical hedgehog when I don't want physical contact.

I think it is also necessary to seek permission to touch a baby. A gentle touch of the hand or foot will tell you whether the baby welcomes further contact or not. It's all in the eyes there too.
 
I think hugs are much better than kisses but I don't want either from strangers!
Sincere hugs from family and friends are wonderful and show love.
 
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