Taking the grandkids shopping tomorrow....maybe

The plan was for me to take the step(ish) granddaughters, 9 and 12, out for a shopping trip tomorrow, to get something(s) special for back-to-school. It's something we do every year.

The 9-year-old is excited; she's still my cheerful little buddy. The 12-year-old, who has morphed into a moody pre-teen with a perpetual <shrug> and "I don't know" as an answer to everything "isn't sure she wants to go". Fine.

I can sure remember when I had one of those moody pre-teens at home. Now I have *three* more of them coming up and I'm not sure I have the strength for it. The shrugging, the side-eyes, the I-will-not-be-pleased-with-ANYTHING!, The odd thing is that it skipped my granddaughter. She wasn't the moody type. The two 9-year-olds will be morphing to the Dark Side in a couple of years, I fear. I have a few more years before the 6-year-old gets there.

The only thing that keeps me from screaming is that experience shows that they'll turn back into perfectly delightful girls after a while......I hope, I hope, I hope.
 

It’s a tough time that we all go through.

You know them better than I do but would it be possible to give the sullen, moody, too cool for school member of the shopping party a cash allowance and let them make their own choices/decisions.

If you are at a mall give them space and a time to meet at a specific time and place for lunch or snacks while you and the junior memeber of the team have a less stressful shopping experience.

Good luck, make good memories!
 

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