The difference between being young and old.

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The difference between young and older is, when one is young one is to busy to sit down. When ones get older then they study how to make the rocking chair rock, without then doing it. Paul :D
 

Hello Paul and GDad,

How true! Really thought about the difference between old & young. I must admit when you're young you tend to be more reckless...blurting out what you think. When you get wiser you wait and then say what would be more appropriate.

Thanks for the quotes. Along the Thames
 

I've always been bad about being too honest. And now I really don't care!

I am way more confident now and I never did suffer fools lightly and now that is magnified as well.
 
Along the Thames said:
Hello Paul and GDad,

How true! Really thought about the difference between old & young. I must admit when you're young you tend to be more reckless...blurting out what you think. When you get wiser you wait and then say what would be more appropriate.

Thanks for the quotes. Along the Thames
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Oops, I don't fall in this category. My filter doesn't work nearly as well as I've aged and I've tried to force myself to think before speaking. Sometimes I can't help myself, it just comes out and I wish it hadn't.
 
When you are young, you go out for the evening at 9:30. When you are much older, you do what gets you back home by 9:30.

Ronald Reagan said something like that!
 
When we were kids remember how you would say, "I WISH I COULD HAVE THAT!", The old wish factor.
My dear granny(Who was born in Bristol England) used to answer me with
"WISH IN ONE HAND & SH*TE IN THE OTHER & SEE WHICH GETS FULL FIRST"
She taught meat an early age, that you get more satisfaction out of working & buying something & achieving, Than Wishing!:)
 
Amethyst1 said:
When you are young, you go out for the evening at 9:30. When you are much older, you do what gets you back home by 9:30.

Ronald Reagan said something like that!
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I never was one to go out late, but I am one that is home earlier and earlier these days. Maybe after the cataract surgery I will feel more comfortable driving at night ( I better, since that's the reason I'm having it,) but right now I get stressed even thinking about driving the later it gets in the evening.
 
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So true RedRibbons !..

If we lived in a world where nobody knew how old they were.... no recollection of a birthdate.... how sweet it would be. We would be as old as we feel !

Yeah, I know... that goes out the window when you look in the mirror.... but hey !.. who cares.

I don't feel 70 but I sure look it.... I don't run as fast or jump as high but what the hell... I feel good !
 
terra said:
So true RedRibbons !..

If we lived in a world where nobody knew how old they were.... no recollection of a birthdate.... how sweet it would be. We would be as old as we feel !

Yeah, I know... that goes out the window when you look in the mirror.... but hey !.. who cares.

I don't feel 70 but I sure look it.... I don't run as fast or jump as high but what the hell... I feel good !
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A few years we stopped at a mini-mart and I went in to buy us a couple of bottles of water and as I was waiting in line I was looking at some of their security camera footage that was running on the screen above the pay counter and happened to notice this old bag standing in line....Oh!... it was me! :rolleyes:
 
Old Hipster said:
A few years we stopped at a mini-mart and I went in to buy us a couple of bottles of water and as I was waiting in line I was looking at some of their security camera footage that was running on the screen above the pay counter and happened to notice this old bag standing in line....Oh!... it was me! :rolleyes:
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lol..OH, I took my 93 year old mom shopping not long ago, the checkout girl asked if we were sisters...Lordy, its time to do something with this gray hair..
 
terra said:
So true RedRibbons !..

If we lived in a world where nobody knew how old they were.... no recollection of a birthdate.... how sweet it would be. We would be as old as we feel !

Yeah, I know... that goes out the window when you look in the mirror.... but hey !.. who cares.

I don't feel 70 but I sure look it.... I don't run as fast or jump as high but what the hell...

I feel good !
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And that's the best part of all, Terra!
 
Jackie22 said:
lol..OH, I took my 93 year old mom shopping not long ago, the checkout girl asked if we were sisters...Lordy, its time to do something with this gray hair..
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I really was very late graying, but how would one know when I've been regularly having it colored all my life to dark blonde tones? I was coasting along feeling good about no gray for years and talking to my hairdresser about it one visit. She kinda smiled and told me it might be time to change my glasses. I got up close to the mirror and OMG, it had gone from none to almost all gray!!! That's okay, instead of only getting heavy blonde highlights now, I also get medium brown lowlights and cover those suckers right up! It really does take years off.

My friend decided to let her brown color grow out and go gray. It didn't make her look her age, it added 10 years. She's a natural looking light brown again, didn't take long.

It's so sad when no one will tell some of the ladies who color at home that the dye is too dark -- and it looks like black shoe polish. Put that with a face over 60 and it's not a pretty sight. No one's hair is one color and the very dark shows up the worst! Lighter colors are less aging according to all the experts I've heard. Very dark hair, for anyone over 60 who may still be blessed with it, casts aging shadows they say. Remember Liz Taylor going from jet black to much lighter blondish tones? I heard her interview w/Barbara Walters and she said that was the reason.
 
You can say anything you want because nobody listens to you anyway.

but I am not going to turn into one of those rude old people you run into, like my mom for instance, they think they can say any rude hurtful thing to anybody, just because they are old they seem to think they have free rein to be rude, no you don't. There is a big difference between speaking your mind and rudeness.

There is no excuse for bad manners, no matter what your age is.:mad:
 
Old Hipster said:
You can say anything you want because nobody listens to you anyway.

but I am not going to turn into one of those rude old people you run into, like my mom for instance, they think they can say any rude hurtful thing to anybody, just because they are old they seem to think they have free rein to be rude, no you don't. There is a big difference between speaking your mind and rudeness.

There is no excuse for bad manners, no matter what your age is.:mad:
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Totally agree, but I'm running into more and more oldsters who no longer have anything resembling a filter. They say exactly what they think no matter how rude it is. But who knows, they may have always been like that?! I avoid the type as best I can.
 
Katybug said:
Totally agree, but I'm running into more and more oldsters who no longer have anything resembling a filter. They say exactly what they think no matter how rude it is. But who knows, they may have always been like that?! I avoid the type as best I can.
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I think when we get older whatever bad or good points we have in our character, they get amplified.

My two grandmas, one was the nicest woman I ever met, I can't ever remember her saying a bad word about anybody and she had a really rough life, but I always remember her being so happy and caring and loving. WAH!! I miss my grandma Mabel, (it's hard to type with tears in your eyes)

Ok, meanwhile..... my other grandma, quite franking was a selfish old crank and I remember as she got older, my aunts would say "oh she is just getting old and bitchy", er no, she was always that way, it was just getting worse with age.

I told my husband one day that from my observations, getting older is like getting drunk, sometimes it brings out the best and or worst in people, mostly the worst, it bring things closer to the surface. If you are generally rude and like to force your opinions on others, you really get to hone your craft as you age.
 
Katybug said:
Totally agree, but I'm running into more and more oldsters who no longer have anything resembling a filter. They say exactly what they think no matter how rude it is. But who knows, they may have always been like that?! I avoid the type as best I can.
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I think those filters get a little plugged up in old age ...:D ... that, or the senile factor comes into play at some point.
 
Yeah, I very much agree. Just because you are the elder in a family, gives you no
right to be rude, only they do not know that they are rude. Or they don't care.
and reason that they must be respected because they are your elder.
 
Amethyst1 said:
Yeah, I very much agree. Just because you are the elder in a family, gives you no
right to be rude, only they do not know that they are rude. Or they don't care.
and reason that they must be respected because they are your elder.
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I don't argue with my mom, she is 85 and has enough problems, I just let her say what she wants and let it go. I'm a "rude old person" enabler :sentimental: "yes mom, whatever you say mom".
 
My mom was the kindest, most patient & gentle person, never seemed to show anything but her lovely side. Not even Alzheimers affected that. She made little or no sense the last few yrs, but it never changed her very easy going disposition.

My dad was a totally a different story --a devoted family man -- didn't drink or chase women, but a good deal of the time he was on the grouchy side. He had an altogether different personality than my mom -- as did one of my aunts, my mom's sister. They were a bit on the ill-tempered side (putting it mildly,) as I remember them. Age had nothing to do with it.

As for most of our parent/g'parents, it wasn't easy. But my dad's father left home when he was 15 for another woman. As an only child w/a mother who had no job, and no chance of getting one back in those days, he assumed far more responsibility than he should have. He carried the resentment w/him in adulthood. I understand, it just didn't make it easy.

After being widow & widower for over 10 yrs, at age 78 my mom remarried my bitchy aunt's husband -- my uncle by marriage for 50+ yrs (and hear it's very common these days with seniors since they've already bonded.)

My beloved stepdad had the same mild-mannered and endearing personality my mom did and I am so grateful the last 10 yrs of their life was a joy for both of them..'til mom's disease required being moved into a care facility. What a gutwrenching time that was for all of us! She lived 5 more years and he never missed a wk-end visiting her tho he lived 75 miles away and she didn't know any of us at the end, but he never stopped telling her how much he loved her. Writing it brings big tears to my eyes. What a beautiful love story, they met their perfect match. I miss them beyond description -- something I know you can all relate to with departed loved ones.
 
What I used to do all night, it takes me all night to do, now days!!
 

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