bobcat
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Any credit for my awakening from ignorance about this should go to my father. It is a story I have rarely told, as I'm sure it wouldn't meet the criteria for proper parenting in today's world. Nevertheless, here is what happened:Bob, my friend...you are so right! Hypocritical BS is what it was. Perhaps people need to consider that "All men are created equal" did not apply to Blacks back in the day because my people were thought of as animals, even less than animals. Animals were treated better than some of the slaves, who were treated as chattel. The machinations of slavery go so deep that I won't even go into everything here. The slave owner mentality was perpetuated in this country after slaves were set free. Even today, though there is no slavery in the general sense people think, there's still unequal treatment of people of color in a surprising number of cases. There is blatant inequality in the justice system as well (both with victims and those arrested for crimes).
Bob and @Pepper...you told it like it is!!
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I was raised in a small town where many were pretty narrow-minded about races, and it was rare to even see a person of color, as I'm sure the welcome mat wasn't exactly rolled out for them. No doubt I had absorbed some of that mentality from living there, However, I don't remember my parents ever speaking about it, although they may have in private.
Anyway, when I was about 10 yrs old or so, we were all starting to sit down at the table for dinner, I had found my usual seat, but got up to get something. Meanwhile my little sister had sat down in my spot, and foolishly I said to her " You little .... (and I used the N word)". Well, in the blink of an eye, my dad sprung to his feet, back-handed me across the face, and knocked me on my ass. With blood coming out of my nose, and tears coming down my face, he looked me straight in the eye, and said: "Don't you ever speak to anyone like that again ... not Ever!"
It was the only time in my life my Dad ever struck me, but somehow he knew that I needed more than an admonishment. I learned a valuable lesson that day that stayed with me for life. People of any color or origin were to be respected and treated as equals. Turned out he was right. Some of the most wonderful people I have met in this life have been from different ethnicities. Looking back on it, it was a small price to pay for a lifetime of reward.
With regard to the DOI, I feel like what should be sauce for the goose should be sauce for the gander. How would they like it if the tables were reversed. I think I understand that their reason was to unite or die, but I just can't buy into the philosophy of "The end justifies the means" Independence was very important to them, and if they had to enslave other humans, mistreat, and even torture them, it was permissible because it was for a good cause. You're right. That is B.S.