GeorgiaXplant
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- Georgia
Twinkles, you've probably already done this, but if not, at least get yourself on a waiting list for subsidized living for seniors!
I live in a granny flat attached to my DD's house. What's that "stigma" that the OP referred to? I had no idea there was a "stigma" to living in a granny flat. I'm fine here with a bedroom, sitting room, bath, full kitchen, my own heating/cooling systems, my own entrance. I NEVER insert myself into their day-to-day lives, their problems, or anything else. I ONLY give advice or opinions when asked and not always then! When I want company, there's company to be had. When I want to be alone, I can be alone. DD and her family live their own lives in their home; I live mine in my home.
I contribute every month toward my share of utility bills and groceries. Groceries because we often share meals. Rent, as such, no. I paid to have the flat built, and they'll benefit by the increased value of their home when the time comes eventually to sell.
"Semi-detached" sort of describes not just the living quarters, but the "life" quarters as well. The words to Kenny Rogers' song The Gambler, cover living with family well:
I live in a granny flat attached to my DD's house. What's that "stigma" that the OP referred to? I had no idea there was a "stigma" to living in a granny flat. I'm fine here with a bedroom, sitting room, bath, full kitchen, my own heating/cooling systems, my own entrance. I NEVER insert myself into their day-to-day lives, their problems, or anything else. I ONLY give advice or opinions when asked and not always then! When I want company, there's company to be had. When I want to be alone, I can be alone. DD and her family live their own lives in their home; I live mine in my home.
I contribute every month toward my share of utility bills and groceries. Groceries because we often share meals. Rent, as such, no. I paid to have the flat built, and they'll benefit by the increased value of their home when the time comes eventually to sell.
"Semi-detached" sort of describes not just the living quarters, but the "life" quarters as well. The words to Kenny Rogers' song The Gambler, cover living with family well:
You've got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away.
So...make darned sure you know what you're getting into, that you'll still have your own independent life, and that you can MYOB and that they can, too!
So...make darned sure you know what you're getting into, that you'll still have your own independent life, and that you can MYOB and that they can, too!