families always cared for the elderly in Uk - I watched mine do it on shift system - many elderly didn\t want to go into care and their siblings didn't want them to either. I've worked alongside some careworkers in such environments occasionally and it is hard ; challenging and also rewarding work but not for everyone. I would think current trends are different and it is difficult to get ANY outside support - that is some potential careworkers from other countries are saying let my family in too and I will work for you - that is blackmail!I have not seen a reply about the families taking care of their own kin. Here in USA they do have a program where a family member can be paid to care for their elderly and also can have professional care come in for meds and general check up. I know this is opening a can of "whoas me" worms but just did not see this in any conversation. Poor boomers did not think they would get old.
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