Yes there are quite a number and once I get my hearing problem taken care of I will pursue them. My profound hearing loss has made this most difficult.
Theres nothing wrong with getting to know a person first before being intimate. I would enjoy kisses with someone while getting to know them. But I would have to be attracted to them also.
Lay nude, belly up on a flat rock till you feel like running into the forest. Or you might try a spiritual discussion group that actually has meetings. What I miss is fellowship. I like a mixed meeting because of the difference in perspective the ladies bring. I happen to attend AA. Our discussions are about how to improve our spiritual lives. I have met plenty of folks who attend meetings because they get drawn to the program. They are not alcoholics. I met a priest once who attended, said the meetings were more spiritual than attending mass. Oh well, you probably already know what I mean.I miss conversation but I drop by the political forum here and that effectively cures me lol. My kids are always calling and texting too so that helps. I adore my sweet little pup. She's so lovable. Lon, I can't remember why you don't want a cat, and I know you can't exercise a dog enough, so I was at the pet store the other day and there was this baby bearded dragon lizard holding onto the front of the cashier's shirt. Her hands were free.
I thought of you as I asked her questions. She said he was very loyal to her and and easy to care for. All the while, this lizard's eyes followed her and I as if human...like a praying mantis does. Very intriguing. But she did say you have to handle them daily when they're young so they get use to it or they might bite. Kind of like some birds. Personally, I prefer something soft and fluffy
Do you think you can be with someone without chemistry? I had a lover who looked like she walked out of the pages of Play Boy. Intelligent, kind, loving. It was nothing for us to have sex for a couple of hours. Yet, I left her. One day I saw her standing at the sink, doing dishes and realized I did not love her. I could not in good conscience stay. I felt she deserved better. I have come to believe that the woman should do the choosing. Women know who they like. Sometimes the man feels it too. Yet, chemistry is not a logical thing. Women have a better sense for it, if they are not drawn to bad boys. Who am i to say. i agree. I miss the closeness and companionship and at this stage of my life perhaps I should not expect more.
I expect to have the chemistry. I may be older but I think you can have the chemistry, closeness and love. Never had the interest in the bad boys, figured they were too much trouble. Maybe I should have allowed myself one but I played it safe.
I beat up on the bad boys, but I am a little jealous too. These guys have a little charisma, self confidence and a motorcycle. They carry a sense of adventure about them and women, I think, feel safe when they are with guys like that. I had my muscle beach days. Now I am more like an adult child. I love to make people laugh. I am likely to be up at 5am just to listen to the quiet before the world gets going. I will talk your ears off about most anything. I also know how to listen. Call me at 980-236-...; God I sound like an advertisement. Thats enough.
Me too. Just lost my driving license due to macular degeneration. I have copd and even though I quit smoking I can't walk more than a few blocks without tiring. Hope that will get better with time. Can't exercise because I just can't move fast or far enough to make a difference. I'm fat. Last year I was bowling but hurt my left hamstring and have not been able to bowl since. I am able to paint, but in Tucson it is very hard to paint outside. The paint drys much to fast in the dry air. Since I moved in with my daughter, god bless her, I no longer have a studio to work in. If there was a passing lion she would eat me first because I am the weakest in the herd. If my humor bone goes I will be in deep trouble.
I took the injections and the supplement for 4 to 5 years. I got progressively worst, perhaps because of my smoking. Finally, I grew to hate the monthly injections. They worked to some degree, but they are wrong about the pain. The injections caused me enough discomfort that I finally refused the treatment. I can still see in my left eye, but the vision in my right is obscured. I am not afraid to be blind. The good news is I can see around corners, just not straight ahead. I love talking books, which I now receive through blind services. I have some eye strain pain and occasional burning in both eyes. The good news for you is that the injections might save your sight for a long time.
