This is what I sent my wife to begin talks regarding my new puppy, and it worked.

Mr. Ed

Be what you is not what you what you ain’t
Location
Central NY
I am saving to buy a puppy, as you can see both dog breeds are compatible to our lifestyles and pets we already have. Bringing a puppy into our home will not be as traumatic as Charlie primarily because breed, size, age and temperament. I will be responsible for the puppy’s care and socialization with existing pets.

I am depressed and I don’t think you realize the void of caring for Charlie has affected me, I know I am going down and without a proper solution I may end up in the hospital again. I think getting a puppy will delay hospitalization and help overcome this path I am on.

File:Golden Retriever puppy standing.jpg - Wikimedia Commons


The golden retriever is a medium-sized breed boasting a golden coat—reflective of its name— originating from Scotland. Known for their kind eyes, loyalty, and enthusiasm for life, the golden retriever is one of the most popular dog breeds in the United States. Though historically bred as hunting dogs in the Scottish Highlands, goldens also make excellent family dogs.

The dogs usually get along well with children and are incredibly affectionate and intelligent. Golden retrievers make wonderful service dogs and are often very successful as guide, assistance, or search and rescue dogs.

Breed Overview​

GROUP: Sporting
HEIGHT: 23 to 24 inches (males); 21.5 to 22.5 inches (females)
WEIGHT: 65 to 75 pounds (males); 55 to 65 pounds (females)
COAT: Medium-length double coat
COAT COLOR: Light to dark gold
LIFE SPAN: 10 to 12 years
TEMPERAMENT: Trustworthy, intelligent, playful, energetic.
HYPOALLERGENIC: No
This breed likes to be where the action is with the family rather than relegated to the yard, where they can easily get lonely. They are not suited to be watchdogs, as they are friendly with everyone. Socialization is important for dogs and comes pretty naturally to the golden retriever. They should do well in a multi-pet household with other canines and cats.
Golden retrievers are gentle, patient and enjoy playing with kids, but their size means they can knock over a small child if they are excited. This might scare little kids, especially visiting playmates who are not used to a larger dog. When they learn to play together appropriately, a golden retriever is a good match for families with kids.

Fox red Labrador retriever: Dog breed characteristics, pictures, care tips


The Red Fox Lab is not a separate breed but a Labrador Retriever with a distinctive reddish coat. They possess the same friendly and gentle demeanor as their yellow, chocolate, white and black counterparts. The red shade of their fur comes from a recessive gene that occasionally appears in Labrador litters.
25 May Temperament and Personality: Alongside their captivating appearance, Red Fox Labs possess a fabulous temperament that contributes to their popularity. They are known for their friendly and gentle nature, making them great companions for individuals and families alike. Red Fox Labs are highly sociable, forming strong bonds with their human family members and often getting along well with other petsRed Fox Labs inherit the fantastic temperament that has made Labradors one of the most popular breeds worldwide.
They are known for their friendly, outgoing, and eager-to-please nature. Red Fox Labs are highly sociable and thrive in the company of their human families. They often get along well with children and other pets, making them excellent additions to households.
 

I had a black lab mix and she was very gentle. But as a puppy.........that was another story! Once she got through the puppy stage she was the best. Very gentle with my husband's granddaughter and she would guard me with her life. She was a big dog though.
 

@Mr. Ed
"I am depressed and I don’t think you realize the void of caring for Charlie has affected me, I know I am going down and without a proper solution I may end up in the hospital again. I think getting a puppy will delay hospitalization and help overcome this path I am on."

I'm so worried about you. I'm so worried about me too..........but enough about me. The puppy might be a band-aid? Whatever, if you feel it could stave off what you are going through I'm all for it. The best of luck to you my friend (& me too while I'm at it). I want you to feel well.*

*well, not great, well is good enough
 
I agree with saving a rescue dog.
They have often lost their will for life, too, stuck in a cage somewhere at a dog pound, and they will give you all of their love and affection when you rescue them from that awful environment.
If you get a puppy, you are going to have at least two years of the puppy getting to adulthood, and in the meantime just being a puppy, chewing up everything, piddling on the floor, and dashing around the house ,knocking over anything in its path, including people.
This is going to be a large and energetic dog, so being knocked over when it comes dashing past you is a real thing to be concerned about.

Years back, I rescued a starving Doberman that was tied out in the cold spring rain, food scattered in the mud, and he was skin and bones. That dog loved me dearly for the rest of his life, and went with me everywhere when I traveled for work. Rescuing him was one of the best things I have ever done, he would not have survived much longer, had I not found him and talked the owners into giving me the dog.
 
Personally I don't like Golden Retrivers, in my opinion they're a high maintenance, high energy type of dog and if not managed correctly can become a handful.

I love labs, they can be high energy as well but are easy keepers in my opinion. They can be a tad difficult to train because they are a sport dog but are still great pets.

Judging from your last experience and all the issues with your wife I don't understand why you want a puppy. So much work, so much energy, so many accidents and destruction, you're just asking for trouble. It's seems almost a guarantee your wife will get angry and resentful again.

Go to the shelter, find yourself a three year old mutt and you'll have all the canine love and affection you need.
 
@Mr. Ed
"I am depressed and I don’t think you realize the void of caring for Charlie has affected me, I know I am going down and without a proper solution I may end up in the hospital again. I think getting a puppy will delay hospitalization and help overcome this path I am on."

I'm so worried about you. I'm so worried about me too..........but enough about me. The puppy might be a band-aid? Whatever, if you feel it could stave off what you are going through I'm all for it. The best of luck to you my friend (& me too while I'm at it). I want you to feel well.*

*well, not great, well is good enough
definitely good enough
 
Ed, I'm sorry you are having adjustment problems since you gave Charlie up.

You have how many dogs living with you & your wife?

Would a puppy be welcomed into the 'pack'?

Can you trying helping at a local shelter to ease the need of another dog?
I have always rescued dogs in the past and I never quite knew what I was getting in a mixed breed dog or an older dog with a history. I want to get a puppy because I have never raised a puppy and I don't think my other dogs will accept another aged canine even just a little. The cost of Labrador Retrievers is outstanding, I am searching the web comparing prices
 
Keep looking. Have you tried Craig's List? That's where I got my two disasters. :D ❤️ ❤️

The amount of animals listed was so upsetting. Homes needed. People move, pass away. All kinds of reasons.
Craigs list, doodle.com, AKCmarketplace.com, gooddog.com, and individual breeders. Costs are high no matter the sources.
 
I tend to agree with C50.
Will your wife get jealous of all the puppy time you will spend?

But that's what you want,,keep looking,,, ask your vet about the folks that will be bringing in the new puppies,, soon.
Same with shelters,, folks that work,, don't have time for a pup which could end up in shelter.

It may not be the breed you want,,, But it might want you?
 


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