I've lived in Los Angeles for nearly 50 years and in Hollywood for a good part of that time. Tourists are part of the landscape. Most of us embrace them and relish their delight at our city, and love their enjoyment of seeing things in person that they've known from movies or TV. I've guided more than one foreign tourist up the back way so they could get a great view and spectacular pictures of the city and the Hollywood sign. I treasure being able to do so and am sure they hold the experience equally dear.
I can only imagine how they tell the story: "And Fran - this woman saw us standing in the middle of Beachwood Drive trying to get a shot of the sign. She said, 'Get out of the street, put your kids into your rental car and follow me if you want a great photo!' Frannie, no lie, she took us up these windy roads and brought us into her BACK YARD where we shot these pictures. I even used her bathroom! Here's a photo of her with our kids and the sign right behind them, big as life!"
My take: I see people standing in the middle of a very busy road, dodging traffic while trying to get a shot of the Hollywood sign. I pull over and tell them that if they want to invest 20 minutes they will get a view few professionals can access. I have them follow me and when I lived there I took them into my yard, but nowadays I bring them to a vantage point that only people in the neighborhood know about. They are thrilled and I have gotten to spend some time with charming, grateful tourists. I tell them a very easy route to take to get back to Hollywood proper and we say our goodbyes. It costs me nothing to be a good host for my fair city.
When traveling we have encountered amazing people who have quite literally gone out of their way to walk us to a train station, have translated for us, paid our subway fare when we didn't have any Euros, showed us their favorite local restaurants, and so forth. In turn, we are generous tippers (even in non-tipping countries), sample local cuisine at small eateries, praise their cities and countries, and respectfully avoid their commute times.
When traveling on a cruise ship we go to (non-chain) port restaurants and small pubs despite having paid for all meals on board. We generally travel during low and shoulder seasons. Europe is chilly in November but a whole lot less crowded.
Los Angeles locals know better than to hit Disneyland during summer, weekends, or school vacations. We use beaches other than Malibu, Venice and Santa Monica during prime summer season. Coexisting with tourists requires patience, planning and an attitude of gratitude that people are interested (and spending money) in your city.
My grandmother used to tell me, "If you can't be a sport when you go out, stay home." Words to live by whether in your own town or traveling afar.