I know what you mean. I had an unbelievable amount of stuff in my Michigan home. Neither the kids nor the rest of the family wanted my things. My house sold and I hired an estate sale agent who turned out to be a crook. After months of asking for my money, I finally sent registered letters and threatened court. He finally sent a check for a pittance of what he took in. I have found myself grieving over this item or that one, all left behind and lost to me forever. My advice is to start taking one drawer, box, closet, or room at a time and sort it out and let it go on your terms. We tend to save our parents stuff and our stuff and our kids left behind stuff and it is overpowering our lives. I too was a crafter, artist, quilter, sewer, etc. Sell your stuff online locally in yahoo and facebook groups, Letgo, Buy, Sell, Trade and free cycle. Donate to a worthy charity. I am still working on clearing out the surplus in my Florida house. No one needs 4 sets of dishes for instance.