Trying to get, constructive rise. Instead, getting nothing!!!

@Sassycakes
I would just keep writing to her without trying to get a rise. Just stick by her until she's ready.
Talk about light stuff like your fun purchase. Ask direct questions but nothing too personal.
She'll either respond or not at which point you can end the relationship or accept that it's one sided.
One sided means you keep throwing her a lifeline in hopes that one day she'll grab it.
 

My daughter was bi-polar and I can tell you that your friend can't help being the way she is. You can contact her, but don't expect a lot. I know it stinks, but she'll drive you nutty if you expect normal behavior. Just go with the fact that she is ill and don't put too much meaning into what she's saying. Cherish the moments when you connect. Right now she sounds like she's on the depressive side of the spectrum. When they are in that phase everything hurts them. Everything is too loud, too bright, too much, so they shut down. Good luck.
 
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