This is NOT a racist post and not to be taken as such, but I think it has some value for grandparents to think about if their grandchildren should want to discuss their future.
I watched the movie, "Boys n the Hood" maybe 6 times. In the movie, Lawrence Fishburne, who played Cuba Goodling's dad, made a statement, which I believe would not be correct today. His line was "Don't go in the Army, Trey. A black man has no business in the Army." I have known many young black kids that did go into the Army, received some really good training on different career paths and are doing well.
I think all young men of all colors should serve, not just for the country's sake, but a man learns more than just how to kill in the service and that's not to mention the benefits available to them when they get out and even get older. There is a lot to be learned in the service of their choice.
While my grandsons were growing up, I often would mention to them about enlisting. My oldest Grandson went into the Army, served in Afghanistan, Iraq and Guatemala and now my youngest son is unsure. He still has 1 more year of school, so I'll have to wait and see what he decides.