My brother didn't mind that I tried to help him, but he wanted to stop himself. It helped me. If someone doesn't want to stop then it's indeed better to not say anything.They don't need to be told how to live their lives. They're grown ass adults who make choices just like you do every day. Don't need to be nagged about it.
Smokers know that cigarettes aren't good for them. Some people feel the need to tell them this like they are clueless. They choose to do it just like someone chooses to drink or eat too much or eat things that are unhealthy. Nobody needs to be schooled in the facts about how these things are bad for you. And generally if they wanna quit they will do it on their own. It's their life. It's good that you see that though.My brother didn't mind that I tried to help him, but he wanted to stop himself. It helped me. If someone doesn't want to stop then it's indeed better to not say anything.
He stopped but he started again. He started when he was 16 though. That's way harder. I only really smoked 2 years and then I got addicted to nicotin chewing gum. Got rid of that with nicotin patches. Wish I had done that 10 years earlier. It only annoyed me when people who had never smoked and had no idea, would say: Just stop. Thanks mate. Really helpful.Smokers know that cigarettes aren't good for them. Some people feel the need to tell them this like they are clueless. They choose to do it just like someone chooses to drink or eat too much or eat things that are unhealthy. Nobody needs to be schooled in the facts about how these things are bad for you. And generally if they wanna quit they will do it on their own. It's their life. It's good that you see that though.
I honestly can't say why I smoked. I just did. Maybe it was because it was something to do. I don't miss it now. Wish I had never started. But it was my choice. It wouldn't have mattered if someone told me how bad they were. I can read and see the warnings on the package.
Did your brother manage to stop?
AgreedI’ve always been baffled why people worry more about my vices than their own.![]()