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@HoneyNut, have you considered renting a very small storage unit. It would allow you retain a few things that you’re not sure about and definitely to store all those photos until you have time to deal with them. It would also take the stress off you.
I did price some early in my planning but it appeared that if I travel a couple years I'd be spending $3000 even for a small storage, so I decided it would make more sense to dispose of everything and buy new when I settle down, especially since I might live in some other state for a while if I find an ideal location. If traveling turns out to be a short experience I will no doubt regret the decision.

If I don't make it through the photos they will be difficult to just throw away, but on the other hand, there is only my brother and I left who would remember any of the people, and the vast majority of the old photos I have no idea who they are. Yesterday I found a photo of my maternal grandparents when my mom was a baby and my great-grandparents are in the same photo which was interesting. It is weird to see my great-grandmother, who I only knew as a very old person, in a photo where she is quite young.

Last night in the garage a box had some discs, I wasn't sure if CDs or DVDs, and they were mostly just numbered, but I brought a couple into the house to see what was on them, and they are voice recordings. One was at an anniversary party in 1955 and it seems like my Dad and his brother were going around interviewing family members and so I heard my great-aunt and one of my great-uncles talking. I met them numerous times as a kid but they died a long time ago. They were talking about how many horses they had for their farm and one person had just recently sold a cattle feed to another person at the party and they were discussing it and wondering if animal feed was going to be a successful product or if it was a temporary fad that then farmers would go back to just feeding corn and oats, and apparently some minerals.

The other disc was of my parents and myself and siblings when I was 3 and a half years old (1959). It was so weird that although my mother's voice was very vaguely familiar, I just didn't recognize her 27 yr old voice as my mother's voice.

I threw those two discs into the stack to go into the two boxes my daughter will keep for me, and now I have to decide do I have time to listen to any others or should I throw them away and not know if I am losing something, I really don't have time to listen to a couple dozen, nor space to keep every memento.

I find this so intriguing because I'm such a travel hound. Do you have a specific itinerary or will you just go where you want at any moment in time?
I have a vague itinerary of doing a sort of loop around the country. My plan was to drive a full day between locations and stay for a month, but the vet has told me if I drive a full day the cat needs a roomy carrier with water and litterpan. I have a small car, so I am going to try the full day the first time (because I already have paid for the stay in Chicago and can't get the money back), but I might afterwards only go a 4 or 5 hour drive each month to a closer location. So I was planning on Chicago, then someplace-Pennsylvania, then Boston, but it might change to chicago-ohio-new york-boston (to whatever towns are big enough to have extended stay hotel rooms). I want to try to get to Boston before any winter weather, then I'll head south.
 

I did price some early in my planning but it appeared that if I travel a couple years I'd be spending $3000 even for a small storage, so I decided it would make more sense to dispose of everything and buy new when I settle down, especially since I might live in some other state for a while if I find an ideal location. If traveling turns out to be a short experience I will no doubt regret the decision.

If I don't make it through the photos they will be difficult to just throw away, but on the other hand, there is only my brother and I left who would remember any of the people, and the vast majority of the old photos I have no idea who they are. Yesterday I found a photo of my maternal grandparents when my mom was a baby and my great-grandparents are in the same photo which was interesting. It is weird to see my great-grandmother, who I only knew as a very old person, in a photo where she is quite young.

Last night in the garage a box had some discs, I wasn't sure if CDs or DVDs, and they were mostly just numbered, but I brought a couple into the house to see what was on them, and they are voice recordings. One was at an anniversary party in 1955 and it seems like my Dad and his brother were going around interviewing family members and so I heard my great-aunt and one of my great-uncles talking. I met them numerous times as a kid but they died a long time ago. They were talking about how many horses they had for their farm and one person had just recently sold a cattle feed to another person at the party and they were discussing it and wondering if animal feed was going to be a successful product or if it was a temporary fad that then farmers would go back to just feeding corn and oats, and apparently some minerals.

The other disc was of my parents and myself and siblings when I was 3 and a half years old (1959). It was so weird that although my mother's voice was very vaguely familiar, I just didn't recognize her 27 yr old voice as my mother's voice.

I threw those two discs into the stack to go into the two boxes my daughter will keep for me, and now I have to decide do I have time to listen to any others or should I throw them away and not know if I am losing something, I really don't have time to listen to a couple dozen, nor space to keep every memento.


I have a vague itinerary of doing a sort of loop around the country. My plan was to drive a full day between locations and stay for a month, but the vet has told me if I drive a full day the cat needs a roomy carrier with water and litterpan. I have a small car, so I am going to try the full day the first time (because I already have paid for the stay in Chicago and can't get the money back), but I might afterwards only go a 4 or 5 hour drive each month to a closer location. So I was planning on Chicago, then someplace-Pennsylvania, then Boston, but it might change to chicago-ohio-new york-boston (to whatever towns are big enough to have extended stay hotel rooms). I want to try to get to Boston before any winter weather, then I'll head south.
I absolutely love this but I don't think I could do it. I need a home base to come back to. But isn't the point of all of this, to be free of those kinds of attachments? I hope you plan on posting here frequently as you travel!
 
My dog went ballistic this morning and I couldn't quiet her until I realized the good neighbor was standing at my back door (and me almost butt-naked in front of big glass wall.) She said she hadn't seen me all week and was worried.
Hahaha... she got to see more of you than she was expecting... :ROFLMAO:
 

It probably does. Do you ever watch the Bob & Brad physical therapist videos? They have a number of them on hands. I use a couple of them for my right hand and it helps. Doesn't cure it but it really helps.
yes, oddly, I do have Bob and Brad on my faves ..but I rarely watch them now, I used to watch them for my lumbar probs, but it never occurred to me to look and see if they were doing stuff on hands.. I'll do that later, thanks for the reminder Kat.. (y)
 
My sister called to say her 20-year-old TV died. I took her to a couple of places & she got a nice 43" Samsung at Costco. I plugged everything in; she's happy. Tomorrow, we're going to Target; she also needs a new DVD player. Her old one doesn't have an HD plug & new TV's no longer have those jacks for non-HD plugs.
I didn't know anyone still had DVD players tbh...
 
Delivered meals-on-wheels.

When I took my morning stroll. I found a legal-sized sheet of paper in the road. It looks like some sort of property closing and a lot of bank figures on it and one name. I took it to the village clerk to ask what I should do with it. She handed it back saying, in effect, that I should try to find the person to ask if him wants it or not. I sent my attorney the story and am waiting for a reply.
Why am I always put in these situations?
 
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Today first thing before I did anything I got a call from my neighbour 2 doors south telling me that a parcel had been delivered to her yesterday for me... very odd because I was here all day yesterday, and my office room is above the front door, and I have a video ring doorbell, so I don't believe anyone knocked here.. and when my neighbour asked the delivery driver if she'd left a note in my door saying my parcel was at no 5.. she said they don't leave cards now. Well how ridiculous is that?..this is Hermes.... essentially it means they can deliver packages to all the wrong addresses, and the original recipient won't know ..unless of course like me you have a trustworthy neighbour!!

Anyway got that sorted out then I had to do battle ( although I was very polite ) with the council waste team.. my garden waste bin wasn't emptied yesterday, and it's full.. they told me it won't be emptied now until 2 weeks hence which is the next collection date.. transpires the annual payment was cancelled by the estranged o/h, and of course he didn't even have the decency to tell me.. :rolleyes:..I text him, he denied all knowledge

After that..it was already to late to do the things I had intended to do today.. so I drove north to the next large town. ...to a new department store which has just opened.. fab store, I bought one item, then had a cuppa tea and a cheese scone in the new state of the art restaurant overlooking the plaza..

Had a little look in 2 huge furniture stores trying to get an idea for new sofas. First I have to return with exact measurements for the new ones , not exactly sure the sofas I liked will fit here.. they all seem to be so HUGE...

took my car to the drive through car wash.. then picked up a few groceries, and headed home...
 
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@hollydolly Scones! I love them with a cup of coffee. In our bakery we sell blueberry scones, but that's it. Only blueberry. As soon as they get marked down, I latch onto a couple of packages, one for now and one to freeze. Love 'em. Not too sweet and not bland. Yum. Just right. I should probably make my own, but the blueberry ones are so good...

Americans call them "scones" with a long "o" but until I came back to the states had only ever heard them called "scons" like "scahns". Are we weird? Coffee and tea with scones. Or tea and crumpets.

BTW, what are crumpets? They look to me like English muffins.
 
@hollydolly Scones! I love them with a cup of coffee. In our bakery we sell blueberry scones, but that's it. Only blueberry. As soon as they get marked down, I latch onto a couple of packages, one for now and one to freeze. Love 'em. Not too sweet and not bland. Yum. Just right. I should probably make my own, but the blueberry ones are so good...

Americans call them "scones" with a long "o" but until I came back to the states had only ever heard them called "scons" like "scahns". Are we weird? Coffee and tea with scones. Or tea and crumpets.

BTW, what are crumpets? They look to me like English muffins.
yes pronounced Scons... but it's a never ending debate .. but the correct pronunciation is Scon..... I love scones .. had cheese one in the cafe, and bought 2 freshly baked fruit scones to bring home ( raisins )

Crumpets are not like Muffins at all.. they are griddle cakes made with yeast
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The Muffin that Americans' call' English Muffins are not the same as we have here. True British muffins are made with yeast.. American (English) muffins are made using Baking soda..
 
yes, oddly, I do have Bob and Brad on my faves ..but I rarely watch them now, I used to watch them for my lumbar probs, but it never occurred to me to look and see if they were doing stuff on hands.. I'll do that later, thanks for the reminder Kat.. (y)
They have a number of them. I watched one on the thumb just this morning and am doing those exercises all day when I think about it.
 
@hollydolly That clears that up! Scones are scons and English mufflins aren't English at all. One thing I know for sure is that our croissants are the real deal and made with real butter. How do I know that? Because I'm the one who makes them :)

Since you're a night owl, try to imagine being in a frame of mind to make 12 dozen croissants at 6am!

Whenever we have three people at work and can spare a little time later in the morning, I make them up and put them in the cooler overnight to proof the next morning. Have had people ask me for them the second they come out of the oven while they're still too hot to package.
 
Delivered meals-on-wheels.

When I took my morning stroll. I found a legal-sized sheet of paper in the road. It looks like some sort of property closing and a lot of bank figures on it and one name. I took it to the village clerk to ask what I should do with it. She handed it back saying, in effect, that I should try to find the person to ask if him wants it or not. I sent my attorney the story and am waiting for a reply.
Why am I always put in these situations?
I would say that as long as it isn't signed and there is no personal (financial or identifying) information on it, it's probably not very important. As to why YOU are put in this situation - good powers of observation and social consciousness!
 
@hollydolly That clears that up! Scones are scons and English mufflins aren't English at all. One thing I know for sure is that our croissants are the real deal and made with real butter. How do I know that? Because I'm the one who makes them :)

Since you're a night owl, try to imagine being in a frame of mind to make 12 dozen croissants at 6am!

Whenever we have three people at work and can spare a little time later in the morning, I make them up and put them in the cooler overnight to proof the next morning. Have had people ask me for them the second they come out of the oven while they're still too hot to package.
I love freshly baked Croissants, I'd eat them if I was the baker...:LOL::p
 
Headed out soon to donate blood platelets, second time in a few weeks. Apparently you can do this every 2 weeks. First time was in response to a Red Cross call saying that my specific blood type was needed for an emergency, so I went right away. Now I suspect I am just on the list...
Yep! My daughter donated once and was totally barraged with requests for more blood. She finally had to tell them to stop calling and texting. She did however reach very high marks for the amount of blood she continued to donate on a regular basis. She just didn't want to be nagged!
 
I would say that as long as it isn't signed and there is no personal (financial or identifying) information on it, it's probably not very important. As to why YOU are put in this situation - good powers of observation and social consciousness!
I did hear from my attorney, surprisingly fast. This is her reply:

You don't have any obligation to do anything with it! It is likely something someone could get another copy of from their lender if it is something they need and lost.
 
Headed out soon to donate blood platelets, second time in a few weeks. Apparently you can do this every 2 weeks. First time was in response to a Red Cross call saying that my specific blood type was needed for an emergency, so I went right away. Now I suspect I am just on the list...
My 2nd husband used to donate blood a lot. Idk how they took his blood, as there had to be pure alcohol running through his veins. :unsure:

Our Blood Bank would offer incentives, if you donate blood , we'll give you a free pint of ice cream from Baskin- Robbins
31 flavors.
 
My 2nd husband used to donate blood a lot. Idk how they took his blood, as there had to be pure alcohol running through his veins. :unsure:

Our Blood Bank would offer incentives, if you donate blood , we'll give you a free pint of ice cream from Baskin- Robbins
31 flavors.
No incentives in the UK at all now. They used to give a cuppa tea and a biscuit.. ( cookie).. just as a thank you really, but now.. Nada...
 
@Em in Ohio Freut mich!;)

Yanno, I haven't spoken German in almost 40 years and wasn't even particularly fluent then. For some reason, all kinds of random words and phrases have been popping into my head (and speech!) for about the past year. Wonder what triggered that? Reckon I'm gonna be one of those people who has a stroke and comes to speaking a foreign language?
Visit me. Talk to my son. He speaks German and Old English. I want him to stop talking to me in German. He thinks I should learn it -- I used to know it (not well enough to discuss ideas) because I took it in college and my Mom was German.

He is also trying to bait me into it by saying we might be able to move to Leipzig. He doesn't pronounce the words right. He speaks high German, and my accent is from Saxony.

Anyway, he can keep you amused and force you into either a great German speaker or into doing something to him so he cannot talk. Duct tape and gags don't work. :)

It's worse now because he speaks in a German accent at his job (McDonalds). The customers love it -- they assume he is German, and many have ancestors from Germany. Even his boss said she's surprised he speaks so well when he's not from here. I wonder if she is hard of hearing (doubtful; she is young), because she interviewed him and there was no sign of any accent. Plus, she hired him without checking if he had a green card or was a US citizen. The only thing that keeps my son interested in his job is that he gets to become a German immigrant - he thinks it's fun.

Meanwhile, I took two semesters of Spanish in high school, and it pops back just like your German does. Useless, of course. I am an opponent of languages that have different articles for every blasted noun that comes along. All languages should stick with one -- the - so non-native learners don't have to get frustrated.
 
I cooked dinner, did a few chores. Then I missed a doctor's appointment. The text said I had an appointment "at four" or so I thought. When I scrolled down to double check the time at 3:30, it turns out "four" should have been "for" and the appointment was at 2.

Then I felt badly because I was a no-show, even though I think (with no evidence) that a followup appointment at the radiation oncologist 7 months later is a way to pad the bill. Everything is fine and there is no need for useless verification. Besides, my oncologist takes care of verification and I will see her in a few weeks.

I have been keeping lists of books read, by genre, since 2011. With changing computers and so forth, I have lists that came along with that process, besides my master lists. So I spent some time comparing the master to the orphan lists to make sure everything was in the master lists. This little project is time-consuming, but I am decluttering my files.

As the project goes on, I start to feel like I'm accomplishing something. I know it is ridiculous, but I don't care. I like decluttering, and I've already decluttered my belongings, except for the 4 large boxes of photos of the kids at my husband's house. (I'm going to leave that for the kids to handle. It is too hard. Photos of one child are easy to categorize, but should every child get the photos of 2 or more children, or just the ones in the picture? There are ample duplicates because when I saw a small change in someone's expression, I took more photos and they all look alike. I am not anyone's go-to photo person. Same thing happens with pictures of the dog, but at least there are only 2 dogs involved and not at the same time. Should everyone get all the dog pictures?

See, I am thinking that unless it involves no decisions, organization is not my forte. It is a cause of great reluctance, and it is a pure miracle that my kitchen is organized. So many decisions!
 
Much better this morning so I'll be off to work in a few. The bruising is still pretty awful, but since we wear masks at work, nobody will know. Supervisor texted me yesterday afternoon and said that he has to leave by 10 this morning. I'll be there alone for a couple of hours, but I'll be fine. I think.
 
Much better this morning so I'll be off to work in a few. The bruising is still pretty awful, but since we wear masks at work, nobody will know. Supervisor texted me yesterday afternoon and said that he has to leave by 10 this morning. I'll be there alone for a couple of hours, but I'll be fine. I think.
Noooo...are you mad ?>. why go back so soon ? 🤗
 

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