What are your WORST qualities?

dseag2 said:
I'm very nervous as well. If someone makes a loud noise behind me or drops weights at the gym I literally lose a step. My leg shakes constantly. I've asked in the forum previously how I can calm down and enjoy a massage when my mind is constantly racing. You're not alone!
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Watch some Eckhart Tolle. Might help.
 
Worst qualities:

Putting others needs and wishes first, to the detriment of my own.

Trusting, even when the red flags have flown at full mast so violently that anyone aware could see the tornado effect.

Thinking people will be kind since that was how I treated them.

Giving up.

Other than those, how long is a piece of string? 🧶
 
Inpatients and perfectionism. I would love to be more carefree and spontaneous. I am in a constant rush to "get things done" My home and life are in total order, all my ducks in a row but I have a hard time just relaxing and having fun.
 
another thing I've just thought of is that I'm a Bear in the morning.. well for the first hour. I can;t be spoken to.. unless you don't want an answer.. I need an hour to just replace the brain cells I clearly lost during the night which make me irritable if anyone speaks to me.. 😀
 
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hollydolly said:
another thing I've just thought of is that I'm a Bear in the morning.. well for the first hour. I can;t be spoken to.. unless you don't want an answer.. I need an hour to just replace the brain cells I clearly lost during the night which make me irritable if anyone speaks to me.. 😀
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Before age 20 I preferred socializing at coffee house versus alcohol bars. But since then have not drank anything with caffeine due to a suffered splenic artery pseudoaneurysm. At workplaces early mornings, many people get their first drinks of coffee with some immediately becoming smiling, cheerful, and talkative. Not something a groggy person still waking up wants to endure at 8am, especially on Mondays. If someone persists doing so after a few unwelcome return look episodes, I've on occasion directly explained what they didn't quietly come to understand.
 
NorthernLight said:
That's your worst quality? When I was online dating, my main criterion was "thinks for himself."
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I wish more people thought for themselves. Too many mindless people are told what to do, what to think and how to act and they just follow the crowd. Seems to be a terrible need to "fit in." I think it's an urban plague. I was born and raised in the country where everybody was an individual and everybody was different. It made life a lot more interesting.
 
hollydolly said:
another thing I've just thought of is that I'm a Bear in the morning.. well for the first hour. I can;t be spoken to.. unless you don't want an answer.. I need an hour to just replace the brain cells I clearly lost during the night which make me irritable if anyone speaks to me.. 😀
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Me too. Grouchy grouchy grouchy first thing when I get up.
 
hollydolly said:
another thing I've just thought of is that I'm a Bear in the morning.. well for the first hour. I can;t be spoken to.. unless you don't want an answer.. I need an hour to just replace the brain cells I clearly lost during the night which make me irritable if anyone speaks to me.. 😀
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My Navy son was like that from early childhood. i told him it was fine as long as he didn't get mad at his brother and i for talking to each other. It got marginally better once he was old enough to drink coffee, than we just had to wait for him to have a cup in him before trying to have any conversation.
 
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