Maybe because long blond hair and blue eyes delays ones better judgement.Why is it that being in or falling in love "takes time"? Whereas hating someone can happen before one can even blink their eyes? There must be some good reasoning behind this but does time really matter in such things or are we fooling ourselves?
Very true but it also changes which brain is driving that car. Hair doesn't have to be long either. Any port in a storm!
I was all for you giving it a go for a while, but that could be a deal breaker for her. You should tell her you can't have sex....see if she falls out of love as quickly as she fell in.
How many hours does it take to feel love and express your feelings to someone, in your opinion? And "I don't know" isn't an answer. 49? 50? 100? 1000?
All the better that you hire her as a nurse then with a proper contract. That way if she kills you, you can sue. You'll have recourse!
Ah, I must be getting old, did'nt see those 40+ posts.
He can't but she can and just might. But it's not my pinata. You all can hit it all you want!
I remember the Subic Bay love call: "Psst, Psst, hey sailor you take me US, OK?"I was stationed in the Philippines for several years while in the Navy years ago. If only I had a nickel for everytime I heard those bar girls say, "GI Joe, c'mere, me go with you! Me love you long time! I love you, no sh*t!" Oh, thanks for the memories!
4 kids at age 27 tells me she enjoys sex, and she's very careless. I'll add selfish.
Yep, and who do you think the cops would ask to leave, you or a mother and her 4 kids? And a judge might agree.
I'm a little taken back about "Wouldn't have to do that with you".@Robert59
She's a nurse and a person. She knows you can't have sex, and that is likely why she has chosen you. She knows that she wouldn't have to do that with you.
I agree with the post above, that figures she'd get the sex from somebody else, while living with you and her children with you.
She doesn't know you , Robert, as a person or individual, so that isn't love.
I dont think Robert loves her, either, btw.
He doesn't know her at all, either!
Just that she is understandably lovely to look at.
She could be big trouble, he'd regret ever letting her move in.
Living alone is much better, than living with someone worse, and harder to live with, than your previous, former girlfriend, Robert.
4 kids from how many daddy's I wonder? And do those daddy's take the children for visits?
Or does he visit them?....for weeks at a time.4 kids from how many daddy's I wonder? And do those daddy's take the children for visits?
A person, any person, male or female, develops true love over a period of time. It is impossible to really know someone in 48 hours. Emotionally mature people, give the matter a great deal of thought before "falling in love". Falling in "like" is one thing. Falling in "horney" is quite common. BUT, no psychologist would ever give a specific number of hours to "falling in love".
mama's baby, papa's maybe
I dunno, I'm feelin' like I may be fallin' for you now. I knew I loved pizza the first time I ate it and I knew I loved sex the first time I had it. I've loved my children even since before they were born so I guess I don't quite agree with your thinking. But hey, far be it from me to advise anyone to do the thngs I've done, that is unless you want to end up where I am with the same things as I have. Didn't Kiss, the band, write a song about you? Calling, Dr Love?
Yer darn tootin!
Same number of hours as it takes to know the person. Took me about 5 months or so. Took her only about 3, but I'm an open book.
I don't know anything about her ex-husband. She never said anything. He might not pay child support. She said she would never get married again.
I'd want to know how involved he is in the kids' lives.
