What do you think is sexy?

"Tall, Dark and Handsome".... I lack the first ingredient. The other two cannot make up for it either, not in my experience anyway.

As for Ladies, I can't really pin it on any one or three certain traits. I like some of a lot of different traits. When I know, I know. πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ
 

What do you think is sexy?


I always thought this actress was...

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At 93 years old, Antoinette Bower is still alive...
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And here's another semi-obscure actress that always comes to mind:


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When a woman is playful and yet mysterious.
A depth of personality that you could get lost in, and you wouldn't give a damn if anyone ever came looking for you.
Wit, charm, and warm smile.
Doing things to entice you when she knows you are watching her.
Someone who is humble, even though she may have many talents.
A woman who can put so much into a single kiss that you can't think of anything else for days.
Get a room, bobcat, you're scaring me.
 
Ha ha ..... maybe I did get a bit carried away. A romance novelist I'm not.
On the other hand, I once described a warm brownie with ice cream so passionately that someone actually proposed to it, sight unseen. ;)
(I'd like to think there's a difference between being intense and dangerous)
Is it possible for us to read your description of a warm brownie with ice cream? If it's not too much trouble??
EDIT:
:) Of course you are not dangerous, Bobcat! I was joking.
 
In my younger days, I thought the "fun" guys were the sexy ones. Good looks didn't hurt. Now that I'm a lot older, I think the intelligent, quiet, and thoughtful guys are sexy. Good looks plays a minor part nowadays. Usually I find, if someone is beautiful (in this case sexy) on the inside, that will make them beautiful (or sexy) on the outside.
 
Is it possible for us to read your description of a warm brownie with ice cream? If it's not too much trouble??
EDIT:
:) Of course you are not dangerous, Bobcat! I was joking.
Ahh ..... well, you see, a warm brownie with ice cream isn't just about a dessert. It's an erotic love story waiting to happen.
Picture this:
The brownie arrives still radiating with gentle body heat, its intoxicating aroma drifting toward you like it dressed up just for this moment. Its center is molten and tender enough to make poets rethink their careers. Then comes the ice cream β€” a cool, velvety cascade that melts the instant it touches that smoldering, velvety chocolate surface, slipping into every crevice as if it were destined to be there since the dawn of time. A perfect harmony, legendary in its union, ready to give you everything it has.

The two don’t just sit on the plate; they embrace. They fuse into a swirling, gooey, creamy masterpiece that feels like witnessing soulmates finally finding each other after lifetimes apart. Every bite is bliss. Every drip is a promise. Every warm‑cold contrast reminds you that opposites don’t just attract β€” they elevate each other into something transcendent. You’re drawn in, helpless against its allure.

When you take the first bite, the world narrows to a single moment. A slow, rising shiver of delight pulses through you. The warmth of the brownie meets the cool silk of the ice cream, and suddenly the cares of the world evaporate as you’re enveloped in chocolatey warmth and sweetness. And as you reach the final spoonful, you realize you didn’t just consume a masterpiece - it also consumed you. Something awakens. You realize you’re in love. You were wooed, you surrendered to the moment, and you were completely satisfied.

By the time you reach the last spoonful, you understand that this intimate experience is far more than dessert. If it had fingers, you might even slip a ring on one and say, β€œI do.”

(Tip: If you want to go all in, put a little Smokey on the stereo, light a couple candles, and let the moment take you.)
 
Ahh ..... well, you see, a warm brownie with ice cream isn't just about a dessert. It's an erotic love story waiting to happen.
Picture this:
The brownie arrives still radiating with gentle body heat, its intoxicating aroma drifting toward you like it dressed up just for this moment. Its center is molten and tender enough to make poets rethink their careers. Then comes the ice cream β€” a cool, velvety cascade that melts the instant it touches that smoldering, velvety chocolate surface, slipping into every crevice as if it were destined to be there since the dawn of time. A perfect harmony, legendary in its union, ready to give you everything it has.

The two don’t just sit on the plate; they embrace. They fuse into a swirling, gooey, creamy masterpiece that feels like witnessing soulmates finally finding each other after lifetimes apart. Every bite is bliss. Every drip is a promise. Every warm‑cold contrast reminds you that opposites don’t just attract β€” they elevate each other into something transcendent. You’re drawn in, helpless against its allure.

When you take the first bite, the world narrows to a single moment. A slow, rising shiver of delight pulses through you. The warmth of the brownie meets the cool silk of the ice cream, and suddenly the cares of the world evaporate as you’re enveloped in chocolatey warmth and sweetness. And as you reach the final spoonful, you realize you didn’t just consume a masterpiece - it also consumed you. Something awakens. You realize you’re in love. You were wooed, you surrendered to the moment, and you were completely satisfied.

By the time you reach the last spoonful, you understand that this intimate experience is far more than dessert. If it had fingers, you might even slip a ring on one and say, β€œI do.”

(Tip: If you want to go all in, put a little Smokey on the stereo, light a couple candles, and let the moment take you.)
Thank you, bobcat.
β€οΈπŸ’• When may we expect the bouncing baby brownies?
 
Thank you, bobcat.
β€οΈπŸ’• When may we expect the bouncing baby brownies?
Ha ha .... They're incubating in the brownie nursery at 325 till they mature.
I think some have nuts and others don't, and I'm sure at least one of them will insist it's actually a blondie, but as a proud parent, I love them all, as they are destined for greatness. I'm even thinking of keeping pictures in my wallet to show to my therapist.
 
Ha ha .... They're incubating in the brownie nursery at 325 till they mature.
I think some have nuts and others don't, and I'm sure at least one of them will insist it's actually a blondie, but as a proud parent, I love them all, as they are destined for greatness. I'm even thinking of keeping pictures in my wallet to show to my therapist.
If you show pictures of brownies from your wallet to your therapist, he/she will probably send you to another therapist!! 🀣
 
If you show pictures of brownies from your wallet to your therapist, he/she will probably send you to another therapist!! 🀣
Well, he's kind of a Forensic Dessertologist that follows the crumb trail to see where it may lead. It didn't take long, after realizing that all the ink blots looked like brownies, to ascertain that I had a classic case of pastry attachment. Dr Fudgewell isn't your average confectionary counselor though; his office decor is amazing. He has a lava lamp with slow moving chocolate syrup, and an entire bookshelf filled with culinary delight recipe books, and even takes notes on parchment paper.

We have our differences though. He feels that a brownie in the wallet is never just a brownie, even though I insist otherwise. He believes I have comfort issues and a need to consume sheer pleasure. He has me writing a letter to the brownie expressing my gratitude as though I should be treating it more like a friend than a love affair. It's part of the journey to my inner bakery.

However, after my last session where I described licking the spoon, I think it pulled the plug on that half-baked possibility. Even a well-meaning intervention would fail miserably. Besides, it provides him with lively dinner conversation with his family in the evening, so in a way, I'm expanding his experiential knowledge and frankly I suspect he is a closet brownie lover himself anyway.

Well, gotta run. It's time for my brownie bonding support group, and you guessed it, someone's bringing ...........?
 
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