What is the surest way to a woman's heart ??

horseless carriage said:
Pen and ink seems to be a lost art, maybe that's why such a letter gets a response. So many I have written for others, most of which has produced a positive result.
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My DH is rare in that he has legible handwriting. People often comment on his handwriting. I think it looks like a girl's handwriting myself, but never told him so. He is proud of it none the less and he buys fountain pens, ink, etc. I think part of it is he likes "old style" stuff.

Now am wondering why he likes me.....LOL "old style"? Naaa...am just classic style.
 
To win her heart IMO would be attraction, humor, interest in her as a person.

Keeping that heart IMO is more important. As noted. Respect & honesty top the list. Not often thought about is how thinking changes as the years roll by. Accepting the reality that change does happen and adjusting to change is key. Communication plays a huge part in all that.
 
It is difficult to please every woman the same way because we are all different. But when you see several people saying the same thing, then that would be a good place to start - trust, respect, communication, and honesty - are some of the ways that would work for me. However, I also agreed with @katlupe about spending time with her. That's important. One can talk on the phone or text all they want to her, but if they do not spend time being with her, they will stay in the friend zone until eternity.
 
Trust aka one woman man.
Clean, smell good, nice teeth, nice breath.
Intelligent; says little means much.
Moderate politically; can talk about more than politics and sports.
Dislikes porn because it demeans women: his mother, his daughter, me.
Energy, but laid back, great sense of humor, has at least 1-2 friends.
Mechanically inclined, a can-doer.
A good lover.

Essentially, nothing less than what I can offer.
 
papa tiger said:
Hear her vent, maybe then offer your solution but then just STFU ! ... :coffee: ...
Realize early on you can't fix it.
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My DH had a hard time learning this. He was so impatient...tapping his foot, wiggling while I was venting to the point I stopped and asked him if he had to go to the bathroom or something! He says: "NO - just get to the point so I can FIX it!!".

Men think you want them to FIX everything, rather than just listen.
If I want to FIX something I will do it myself, thank you.
 
CooCooforCoCoPuffs said:
My DH had a hard time learning this. He was so impatient...tapping his foot, wiggling while I was venting to the point I stopped and asked him if he had to go to the bathroom or something! He says: "NO - just get to the point so I can FIX it!!".

Men think you want them to FIX everything, rather than just listen.
If I want to FIX something I will do it myself, thank you.
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My husband is the opposite. He thinks if I complain about something that it means I want him to fix it. In reality all I want is someone to listen to me.
I don’t know what the quickest way to a women’s heart is. The quickest way to my heart is to be a compassionate listener with a good sense of humour. I can’t speak for other women.
 
Llynn said:
MONEY!

answer based upon personal experience with select database of women, YMMV
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OK I agree with this to an extent but go beyond. I like to be treated like a queen of someone's heart and then I know it's real. Just being showered with money is nice but even nasty men will do that to get what they want. Someone who treats you like you're the most precious thing in the world is what I like best. :)
 

What is the surest way to a woman's heart ?​


Tell her that she is beautiful.
Tell her that she is so clever.
Tell her that she always smells gorgeous.
Tell her that she is the most fantastic cook.... then after she has cooked a super meal, tell her how delicious it was, then offer to wash the dishes.

It never worked for me though. 😊


KSav said:
No, no, no.
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Sorry, but I think yes, yes, yes, because, well, if I were to tell her that she was ugly, I might get such a slap that my ears would be ringing for a fortnight. 😊
 
Gary O' said:
Humor
Will get her attention
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I've heard that if a man can make a woman laugh, he's the one. Honestly, I've laughed, at the beginning, at just about everything that each man in my life has said or done. None of those relationships stood the test of time. I think that women are just inclined to laugh when we are getting to know someone. We're happy to be in a new relationship. Life is funny. Because men feel good when they think they are thought of as funny, just as it is with everything in the beginning, they try harder.
 

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