What would you do?

Cyclist

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Hello Everyone, just asking for your thoughts on which direction to plan for retirement. Of course if my knees and legs are strong, I'll automatically
be going the route to work until age 65. There is no option to continue working beyond that age.

I am 55 yrs old.
DH is 62 this month.

We have a $1450 a month mortgage in Calif.
It's paid off when I turn 80 yrs old. I am healthy but had a rough life so estimate my life expectancy at about mid 80's.


Expenses:
Part B+ the CHEAPEST Medigap Plan of $125 (no advantage plans available here) + co-pays/deductibles- $260x2 people= $650
Utilities (Propane, power, Natural Gas, Water) $450
Transportation (DMV Fees- $25, Insurance- $125, Tires $100 per month- $100 a week for gas- bare minimum to drive to closest town 1x a wk)- $350
Repairs- Car/House. heavy snow country in the sierra's, many repairs- $175
Incidentals/Food/Clothes/Groceries- $800 (just to survive- for 2 people, no food banks here. Ill health requires certain food/vegetables)
Internet/Landline- $150 (we have Satellite internet, it's all that is available out here in the boondocks)
Auto-Wear and Tear on the Car- $500 per mo. That's if we replace the car with a cheap 6k used car as ours wears out
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$2775 per month. We live in the Sierra's so endure heavy snow every winter.
It limits his work ability to working just half the year.
I work all year. We both commute is 3 hrs 15 min per day to the nearest town with services.
We cannot move. Our biological son is mentally disabled. He cannot live alone without being checked on, we choose to take him to some appointments to ensure all is good, etc. During the snowy winters for 6 months, we only see him a few times a month since its so difficult to drive here. We usually go to him bringing dinner, cleaning up his home, etc. He owns his house.
He lives 2 hrs away and we see him 1x a week when he's over for dinner or we stop by his house


Which route should we plan to go in retirement?

1. DH and I take SS early for a combined Social Security amount of about $2300 per mo.


How can we live off of $2300 when our EXPENSES are $2775 per month?

- Eliminate driving. Take our County Bus into town 1x a wk to the nearest town with services. Change doctors to this town.
We'd drive illegally, occasionally, but only within our small 125 population town and to visit our son late at night if he doesn't show for dinner during half the year when the weather permits. About 10 people here drive illegally, mainly just within 2 mile radius downtown the post office for example during a snowstorm. It's almost impossible to have any issues so the Cops ignore it.These are honest hard working individuals who take the County bus 1x a week into the nearest town, 1.5 hrs away, with services. Most of us either ride a bike into town, drive, or occasionally some off-road vehicle (though technically it's illegal but often most ignore it if it's a Senior who cannot walk)

-Biggest Benefit. Medicaid will cover All his expenses after he pays for Part B.
I am covered thru retiree medical for $20 per month starting at 65.
Other option is a $125 Medigap Policy, the cheapest option and it leaves open a 3k out of pocket. Almost useless as you pay for most everything.No advantage plans offered. He has some health issues already so this is great peace of mind.

-Low income Discounts: Example 10% off opower bill= $15 per month (we otherwise use Karosine heater, and Propane too). $17.50 discount on our landline phone. $30 discount on our $85 Satellite internet (no other options out here).We pay full price for everything like most people do but doing the research, these discounts are valuable. We would never consider signing up for Food Stamps

-IRA. I have a 50K balance in my IRA. At age 75, when DH is dead or possibly almost ready to die to health issues (though he eats pretty healthy)- it should be about 180K by then at 6.5% interest.
I will rely on this IRA to make my $1400 a month house payments for 5 yrs until the Mortgage is paid off. If he outlives me, thru a miracle, it would be vice versa. We are okay when I hit age 80 and he's hit age 87.5 yrs old.



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. Assume I can work this physical job until age 65 and he takes his SS at age 70. My legs are sore right now so that is about 10 yrs away. Our combined SS would cover our expenses but we'd only have a pretty small cushion of $275 per month leftover each month cutting it pretty close. Pay 100% of bills as we've always done with no low income discounts, No medicaid discount.

I contribute a little to a work 401K. Plan is to use that balance buy an electric car or hybrid for 20-25K. This would reduce the gas costs listed above giving us a better cushion. However we would not be able to be home growing any vegetables. Not a great place to grow stuff but it can be done and does help lower our food bill. He grows some herbs/sprouts/broccoli/kale already

KEY- We risk paying out of pocket for his MEDICAL which is the main thing that concerns me IF I cannot work until age 65. I'd want to take my SS at age 62 to qualify for low income discounts if I cannot work until age 65. Hopefully around age 62, I'll have an idea. Go over taking my SS at age 62, and we loose ALL Of those discounts. We could go into the hole. So it needs to be either/or.



Of course if I can continue working this very physical job until age 65 (we are forced to retire after that) then #2 is our hopeful plan but is it too risky?? Do you think I ought to just take SS at 62 and quit working to qualify for the low income stuff? I could not continue to contribute to SS or we'd go over and loose ALL of that going into the hole. Being right on the cuspid is the worst financial place to be. Either go poor or pay for everything with a good $250+ cushion (which I know is low, esp. for here in Calif)


The Mortgage is paid off when I am 80 yrs old. DH will surely be dead by then at 87.5 yrs old. He's got some health issues now so I expect he will live until about early to mid 80's max. So the expenses will go down by 1k a month without a Mortgage.


IRA
50K balance currently. Gains average about 6.5 to 7% per year. At my age of 75, it will have likely grown to about 180K.
At age 80, no more Mortgage which I'll assume saves about $800 per month. I will be okay when he passes away.
I also have very good Retiree Medical benefits so am not concerned about loosing Medicaid or any low income discounts.


Of course if I can continue working this very physical job until age 65 (we are forced to retire after that) then #2 is our hopeful plan but is it too risky?? Do you think I ought to just take SS at 62 and quit working to qualify for the low income stuff until I hit about age 75-80 when I/we no longer qualify?
 

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To summarize, if I take SS at 62, we would qualify for Low income discounts and Medicaid would cover any expenses after he pays his Part B. If I continue working to age 65, which would be the max allowed at work (and my legs/knees won't last longer) we are okay to pay for everything, including the junk lowest Medigap plan available here in our area for $125 but it covers almost nothing. Leaves us a few hundred cushion which could be ate up with just medical bills for him. No Medicare Advantages way out in BFE here.

But ...I'd need to plan to quit my job at 62. The cutoff cliff is right there for Medicaid.

We can still work his business half the year going to his SS which never changes either way.

Our County desperately needs foster homes and it saves them 3K per month if they enter a home versus a group home. We are considering going back to doing that if I do retire at 62.
 
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Hi Cyclist. I know what it's like living close to the edge financially, and having to make tough decisions. Unfortunately, I can't offer much specific advice, as I'm in Canada, where the pensions and other things are different.

However, I'd say if you're already having knee problems, they might be much worse in 10 years. In my experience and opinion, energy level really starts to falter at about age 55. That's why they call it over the hill. Much as you might like to keep working at your job for 10 years, it might become too difficult. And did I understand correctly -- daily work commute is more than 3 hours?

I'm not sure why you mentioned foster care. Were you thinking of doing this?

As I said, I don't have answers for you. But if work, etc., is already difficult, I wouldn't count on being able to hold steady for another 10 years. It might be time to think about some changes. (Which you are already doing.)
 

Thank you NorthernLight. I appreciate you taking the time to respond.

We cycle so I am not sure if my knees would give out, it seems to really help.

But again, the unknown is the problem.

If we didn't have a disabled son we need to live somewhat close to, we'd have more options.

I work just 6 hrs a day so the 3 hr 15 min commute is long but it is do-able.

I have eye issues so getting a job somewhere else would be more difficult and it may not offer the medical/dental benefit package nor the small pension.

Hopefully you are keeping warm in Canada :) not enduring the almost record snowfall we have here. Thanks again
 
That is tough, sounds like you both have health issues. You also have a special needs son, I would expect you have researched all the services available to take care of him.

Could you sell the home and live off the proceeds? I have it found it is cheaper to stay in my mortgage free home than the cost of living in an apartment.

You need to look at your mortgage, Is this something you want to pay off before retirement, It is always best to start with retirement when you are debt free. You must also consider your health care, insurance if either one of you have a sudden illness. It sounds like retirement aged 62 for medicaid. What you need in order qualify for. I thought medicaid was only available for those that had no retirement funds, had to sell their home for income. I think it would be a good idea to contact someone that can give you the rules that must be followed to have you approved. Have them send the information to you by mail so that you can review if closely.

You both have a jobs and income at this point. I do not think you would qualify for medicaid right now. Please look into the further before you make a decision.










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My husband worked 12 hour night shifts until he was 70 so you look young to me.
You should consider a reverse mortgage, or just selling and moving to a less expensive area and live off your equity & savings in addition to SS.
 
To Blessed:

Employer provides us benefits. $35 a month for him, $0 for myself. My income alone puts us over the Medicaid limit.
I can reduce hours slightly if necessary but we'd loose coverage for him. It's Union. I am paid $7 per hr above min wage
I have very weak eyesight so another job could be challenging
Selling this house may be an option but we'd need to find something less expensive which is not too far from our disabled son
That is a challenge
House was a great deal BECAUSE it is so far out.
Value is about $275K-$300K. We owe $160K
If I pay off the house it would be using retirement funds, let's say at age 70. But then I have no cushion
Pension is about $120-$150 depending upon if I retire at 62 or 65.
Or if I can even stay working just 16 hrs a week, Pension would be 33% higher. Must take Pension by age 70
I forgot to factor in the pension
 
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My husband worked 12 hour night shifts until he was 70 so you look young to me.
You should consider a reverse mortgage, or just selling and moving to a less expensive area and live off your equity & savings in addition to SS.
I'll look into a Reverse Mortgage. That may be the answer. Glad your husband worked 12 hr shifts for so long but depending upon how physical the job is, it cannot always be done.
 
Google Mr Mustashe…probably misspelled it but you get the drift. Very very good advise for people wanting to retire. Lots of tricks
Great advice! I've been away from this website for some years now. It's the reason I have a 401k at all. Too bad I found them so late.
 
Would it be possible to sell your home when you retire, take the proceeds and move to a lower cost area and also take your son along with you? Just an idea, I'm not sure what his living arrangement is now or if that same arrangement could be set up elsewhere.
 
Lemongrass that is an excellent idea. He is living with us now but has mental illness. He has $ to buy a very cheap apartment, possibly, as the real estate goes down. However I am not sure living near us is good for him. It may be possible to buy a parcel with a few homes on it, fix up one for him to live in and have a separate driveway so he has his privacy. Yet he's nearby so I can give him his organic vegetable juice which has more than that in it. It does wonders for him. He's on a new medication since 2 weeks ago and there is a huge level of improvement so that might really make a difference. That is a very viable option which would reduce our driving time too. Thanks so much
 
I had wrote off that idea earlier but now that he's on new medication, you just never know. It might work out great living on the same property but ensuring there are separate driveways and such. DH is very handy
 


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