When do you feel the most like a man or a woman?

The most beautiful I have ever felt was when I gave birth to my precious daughter. I gave birth to her naturally with no meds. It was so quiet and beautiful. Then when I would hold her and nurse her knowing this was a little beautiful being I had carried inside of me and now nurturing to be her own person. It was like the angels were watching over us. Most beautiful thing I have ever experienced.
 

As a kid, I got involved in competitive wrestling. The town I grew up in had a small college and they had a college wrestling team. The coach of that team offered all of the young boys from 3rd grade up through 8th grade an opportunity to take wrestling training with some of the college wrestlers. Many of us would go up to the college after school during the winter months and workout with the college wrestlers and their coach. Then at the end of each year they would put on a wrestling tournament for the kids before one of their actual matches with another college.

It was a great opportunity and when I later in life moved with my family to a big town and went to a large high school and I wrestled. I recall that when I stepped out on the mat to wrestle another person, my size, one on one, it changed me in many ways. Part of that was to learn in time what it is like to face adversity and stand up to someone accepting whatever the outcome would be. This was a big part of me really understanding what it is like growing up and feeling manly.
 

When do you feel the most like a man?


Whenever the lovely lady opposite and I go to the park for a walk. She has to walk right the way across the park to the 'ladies loo', while I just find that big pine tree to pee on.... I'd swear it's grown 40ft on my pee. 😊
 
Hmmm, it's been so long....lol.... the elderly guy that sacks groceries at the store helped me load my groceries, then said "you be careful going home, Darling."...lol, does that count?
 
Birthing and nursing my children. All 5 were born at home, natural, no meds. It was intense and wonderful. And after, for as long as I nursed them, (and it was a long time) I felt totally female.

Currently, when my husband puts his arms around me. I’m tall for a woman, but he’s taller, and in spite of his age he lifts weights every day and he’s all ropy muscle. I feel small and feminine and womanly in his arms.
 
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I feel most like a man when I am not feeling like a women
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(Bobcat puts on his Dr. Freud hat). Hmmmm, so there are times you feel like a woman, eh? How long has this been going on, and what do you think brought it on?
 


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