StarSong
Awkward is my Superpower
- Location
- Los Angeles Suburbs
Every decade - indeed every year - has been a mixed bag of good and bad. No rose colored glasses for me.
When my kids were little and an extreme handful (3 kids in a smidge over 2 years), I recall my mother saying to me, "You kids were so easy. I never had a minute's trouble with you." I thought to myself, if we were so easy and no trouble, what was all that yelling about????
I realize that I've developed my own version of parental and life amnesia, partly because I know the endings are happy.
Now that I'm on the other side, I don't give a lot of weight to past financial challenges, extended family drama, or the sleep deprivation that came with babies. I tend to remember highlights over the lows, picture-perfect moments rather than sick children at 3 am, times when my kids played happily together rather than moments when I feared one would do serious harm to another, and vacations rather than months of juggling bills just to make ends meet. I allow my past geo-political concerns to recede because my current fears are so overwhelming.
On balance, life's been pretty good to me overall, but every period has included plenty of dips along with the peaks.
When my kids were little and an extreme handful (3 kids in a smidge over 2 years), I recall my mother saying to me, "You kids were so easy. I never had a minute's trouble with you." I thought to myself, if we were so easy and no trouble, what was all that yelling about????
I realize that I've developed my own version of parental and life amnesia, partly because I know the endings are happy.
Now that I'm on the other side, I don't give a lot of weight to past financial challenges, extended family drama, or the sleep deprivation that came with babies. I tend to remember highlights over the lows, picture-perfect moments rather than sick children at 3 am, times when my kids played happily together rather than moments when I feared one would do serious harm to another, and vacations rather than months of juggling bills just to make ends meet. I allow my past geo-political concerns to recede because my current fears are so overwhelming.
On balance, life's been pretty good to me overall, but every period has included plenty of dips along with the peaks.