Which would you rather have, love or money?

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I take it that by YOU, you are not referring to me! I don't particularly like it when people use "You" when referring to another person's issue, especially in public. It gives the wrong impression that the person being talked to is the one who has done something wrong. Anyway, assuming you are not referring to me, I absolutely agree that it is often possibly the cheater who has the problem.

I know of men who had good, faithful, loving wives who still cheated. I'll never understand it how men can profess to love their wives so much, yet do that to them. Most of the wives stayed.

sorry, no intention to direct my comments at you.
In general the problem is not the spouse. it is the person complaining.
My ref to YOU was meant to refer to the complainer. All my comments after, were directed to the complainer. Not you
I didn't think about my wording. So sorry.
The problem is that people think there is always something better then what they have. Never consider that maybe the problem is themselves.
The old adage is that you never know what you lost until it is gone. So true
Some may come to their senses and try to make amends. Some will push forward and, ironically, probably find an individual just like the one they just left. Life is crazy. People are crazy.
Have a nice day

 

[Dr.Colosso]

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