Hmmm. For centuries, men wore earrings, high heels, stockings, wigs, etc. it was fashionable. My nephew, who is a physician working with Medecin Sans Fronteres, wears earrings. I assure you, he neither lacks personality, or adequacy. It is a fashion
statement, nothing more. Certainly, an individual who devotes his life to serving others in war torn countries, is not an attention whore. I suspect this may be a generational bias. By the way, many women believe that earrings are very attractive
additions to their wardrobe. Some of us may undress for men, but dress for ourselves!