Women Only: How Many Good or Bad Relationships Have You Had with Men?

Good or bad relationships with men?

  • Nothing but good, feel free to post about

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Both good and bad, feel free to post about

    Votes: 6 40.0%

  • All bad relationships, feel free to post about it

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • No relationships with men, please talk about it

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Other, please talk about it

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I don't care to talk about it!

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Total voters
    15
Ruthanne

Ruthanne

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Please don't be shy we all have so much in common.

Me: This is for women only, sorry. I am wondering how many of you have had good relationships with men or good and bad relationships with men or all good relationships or all bad. A good relationship I would define as one that lasted for a long time with conflict that was worked out amicably, a bad relationship was one that ended and had lots of conflict that could not be solved for some reason or another and ended and caused pain.

I will submit multiple choice questions of which you can answer.
 

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I will begin. I have had many relationships with men in my lifetime. I am talking about the serious ones, though. All of the relationships that I have had did not work out. I lived with 2 men as common law and both ended in lots of pain. There was cheating, beating, and there were some good times, too. All in all I have never had a genuinely good relationship with a man.
 
I'll bite, Ruthanne.

All good, but not that many, and none permanently live in, always had separate places. I look back now and think how lucky I was.
 
I've had good relationships. Only one broken heart that was a doozy... but I survived. Then found my precious husband.

Never in any abusive situation, thankfully.
 
Been with my husband since I was 15,he was 17. I KNEW from the first date that he was the man I wanted to marry. I may not have had a ton of dating experience at that age,but from the way he treated me on our first date,I just knew. We married at 17 and 19 and just celebrated 50 years of marriage in December. I wouldn`t trade him for any man I have met since the day I met him. He feels the same about me :) We also owned a business and worked together for 34 years-so really we`ve been married a lot longer lol.
 
Been with my husband since I was 15,he was 17. I KNEW from the first date that he was the man I wanted to marry. I may not have had a ton of dating experience at that age,but from the way he treated me on our first date,I just knew. We married at 17 and 19 and just celebrated 50 years of marriage in December. I wouldn`t trade him for any man I have met since the day I met him. He feels the same about me We also owned a business and worked together for 34 years-so really we`ve been married a lot longer lol.
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Same here I could not be a go to on this poll. I met my husband when I was 16 he was 19, we married when I turned 18. Funny ,we also owned a business and worked together from 1987 until 2002. All the males in my life before that were mere boys….40 years and countin'..:love_heart:
 
NancyNGA said:
I'll bite, Ruthanne.

All good, but not that many, and none permanently live in, always had separate places. I look back now and think how lucky I was.
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Good for you Nancy!

C'est Moi said:
I've had good relationships. Only one broken heart that was a doozy... but I survived. Then found my precious husband.

Never in any abusive situation, thankfully.
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Glad you had good ones but sorry your heart was broken. :sentimental:

CeeCee said:
I was happily married for 35 years before he died. After that I had a live in boyfriend for a few years, didn't work out but wasn't abusive.
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So sorry for your loss.
 
Mrs. Robinson said:
Been with my husband since I was 15,he was 17. I KNEW from the first date that he was the man I wanted to marry. I may not have had a ton of dating experience at that age,but from the way he treated me on our first date,I just knew. We married at 17 and 19 and just celebrated 50 years of marriage in December. I wouldn`t trade him for any man I have met since the day I met him. He feels the same about me :) We also owned a business and worked together for 34 years-so really we`ve been married a lot longer lol.
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Great! That's nice to know.:love_heart:

Seeker said:
Same here I could not be a go to on this poll. I met my husband when I was 16 he was 19, we married when I turned 18. Funny ,we also owned a business and worked together from 1987 until 2002. All the males in my life before that were mere boys….40 years and countin'..:love_heart:
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Thanks for your post.:sentimental:
 
I had mostly good relationships with men and just a couple of bad ones. I learned from the bad ones and now know the red flags of men I don't want to be around. Most men in my life were very good to me and we had lots of happy times together. My last relationship was like that and we lived together and mutually decided we wanted to be more independent and live apart. We are still good friends and he has another lady friend who he does not live with. I'm happy on my own now and have nothing against men, they can't all be judged by a few
 
Stormy said:
I had mostly good relationships with men and just a couple of bad ones. I learned from the bad ones and now know the red flags of men I don't want to be around. Most men in my life were very good to me and we had lots of happy times together. My last relationship was like that and we lived together and mutually decided we wanted to be more independent and live apart. We are still good friends and he has another lady friend who he does not live with. I'm happy on my own now and have nothing against men, they can't all be judged by a few
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That's nice you are happy now.
 

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