Worst Faults and Bad habits ?

I don’t listen, hear, respond

Tried correcting these things

Guess I should work on hearing and listening first, because after attempting response improvement, I found most are out of context

Thought laughing and saying ‘me too’ here and there, from vague tones and subconscious awareness of inflection would get me through

It’s not working

Probably
 

I'm also prone to fret and worry. My biggest "fault" is that I am not social and prefer my own company to being with a bunch of people. An invitation of any kind puts me in a bad mood immediately. Get off my lawn!! :eek:ld:
 
Oh yes that's another thing, I worry and fret about everything.. scenarios that haven't happened yet, but might...

My o/h is the most laid back person.. and he gets bored with me getting anxious about stuff that hasn't happened .. but I just feel I have to be prepared in case it does. I wish I didn't because it plays havoc with my stomach!!
 
Well holly you are blessed that you have a very laid back husband. That was quite obvious the way he handled the car crash that wasn’t his fault. My man is frantic like a ticking time bomb at times which doesn’t help my anxiety any. He frets and worries endiessly but so does his father. He came from a family of worriers whereas mine weren’t
 
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i guess i am like holly dolly----start too many things and the end of the day i havent accomplished anything----i also worry too much about things that havent happened
 
hollydolly said:
Oh yes that's another thing, I worry and fret about everything.. scenarios that haven't happened yet, but might...

My o/h is the most laid back person.. and he gets bored with me getting anxious about stuff that hasn't happened .. but I just feel I have to be prepared in case it does. I wish I didn't because it plays havoc with my stomach!!
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My husband is also calm and easy-going. I guess that's why we're a good match. When I start obsessing about "what if", he always says why don't you wait to see what happens before freaking out. :laugh:
 
Keesha said:
Well holly you are blessed that you have a very laid back husband. That was quite obvious the way he handled the car crash that wasn’t his fault. My man is frantic like a ticking time bomb at times which doesn’t help my anxiety any. He frets and worries endiessly but so does his father. He came from a family of worriers whereas mine weren’t
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Oooh I'm sorry that your o/h is frantic so much keesha, I couldn't cope with that tbh.. and it must really make your anxiety so much worse, you need a calm atmosphere around you :love_heart:
 
hollydolly said:
Oooh I'm sorry that your o/h is frantic so much keesha, I couldn't cope with that tbh.. and it must really make your anxiety so much worse, you need a calm atmosphere around you :love_heart:
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Yes his frantic personality does nothing to help my anxiety so I thought I’d whine about it some and see how that helps.
Hes not that bad; just really high strung. I’m jealous of those who have calm stable men, like yours.
My guy however is very funny and very generous so makes up for it in other ways , so I really shouldn’t complain , but .... will. :grin: lol
 
Ooh yes swings and roundabouts..mine can be a right grumpy Sod!!!.. and he doesn't talk much which gets on my last nerve cuz I'm a chatterer... (you couldn't tell could you)? :D
 
Feel too embarrassed to say my Worst faults; everyone here has probably seen some as I've seen theirs, too..and a good LOL to all of us on that~
 

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