I think there must be at least a 1,000 best & worst lists floating around. Sometimes my chosen state is on one or the other or not at all. I chose my new home based upon my comforts & no one else's. I neither like the cold nor the heat, snow shoveling, icy roads or temps over 100. Living expenses would a major deal breaker, I knew to stay away from the major metropolitan areas, giving up a little culture & entertainment experiences for a more laid back existence. Health care was a must, traffic & convenience to mass transit & shopping were others. Rents are just that, the lower I could keep them without living on skid row in a high crime area were a determining factor. I also chose an area not dominated by religious dogma & control (you listening Utah?).
My state has high rents in the major cities but acceptable if you choose to live more spartan, high taxes if you & your spouse make over $250,000 yearly, HA! I make enough to pay my bills, dine out 3-4 times a month, go to a movie & keep our humble abode up to standards. I have savings for a new washer or whatever. drive a paid off economical vehicle. We can go to the beach, mountains & deserts if desired. Hit the casinos or theme parks if that was our goal. Property taxes for some is high but because of the age of our paid for manufactured home we pay less than $6 annually if paid early. No sales tax, income taxes are less than my previous state's because they don't tax SS. The summers & winters are mild, spring is wet but fall is beautiful.
The unexpected benefits were, retirement communities & services are abundant, people are friendly & the dress code is non-existent. I could wear sweats, shorts, bib overalls to Olive Garden & not be out of place. Shorts with socks, who cares, & I can wear white after Labor Day. In the 5 years we've lived here I haven't heard anyone criticize others for their clothing, size or transportation. We have our farmers market, low, low air pollution. Trees, lakes, rivers everywhere, no wasps, mosquito, limited fly population only small complaint is the tiny ants, slugs & snails but you adapt. And if we so choose then it's totally acceptable & legal to light up a joint.