Would You Have Told Someone

[RadishRose]

....if they were walking around with something amiss that would be embarrassing to them if they knew?

Like, a co-worker leaves the restroom with toilet paper stuck to the bottom of his or her shoe and walks around the office like that.

One afternoon at work, a woman from Home Office came for a big meeting.

While a bunch of us were sitting outside on break at the back entrance, she came out of the door to leave and was heading for her car, unaware her panty hose were pulled up over her skirt in back and to one side, the skirt was all pushed way up!

We were aghast; someone asked, "should we run up and tell her?" No one could decide, so she drove off that way.

My opinion was no, I couldn't stand to think how terrible she'd feel and thought (hoped) she was on her way home, anyway.

 

[hypochondriac]

Like the guy who forgets to zip his fly.
Better for a male coleague to tell him I guess.

 

[Pink Biz]

I think I would tell the individual that something was amiss, because if the roles were reversed I'd want to know. Otherwise, I'd feel even more like a jackass when I realized I had a problem and noone bothered to let me know about it.

 

[Judycat]

I used to never get involved. Thought you're on your own, I have enough of my own problems. Now I do most definitely stop people and help them save face. Don't even think about it, don't know what happened, went soft I guess.

 

[Aunt Bea]

I would try to tell them privately.

A group of giggling people pointing it out to someone they know might be worse than not mentioning it at all.

 

[Ruthanne]

I try to tell someone when something strange is going on with them. A guy I knew had something hanging from his nose so I told him. I would want someone to do the same for me.

 

[hollydolly]

Yep always, I would... !! I've done it many times to total strangers , like others I put myself in their shoes, and I would hope someone would tell me

 

[Lc jones]

I absolutely would! And I do hope that somebody would do me that favor as well!

 

[hypochondriac]

I try to tell someone when something strange is going on with them. A guy I knew had something hanging from his nose so I told him. I would want someone to do the same for me.

something hanging from his nose ??
sounds like a costume for a Halloween Party.

 

[Ruthanne]

something hanging from his nose ??
sounds like a costume for a Halloween Party.

No, it was more like a boogar!

 

[hypochondriac]

No, it was more like a boogar!

yeah im grossed out now.

 

[RadishRose]

It's true, telling may be the best, but we had not time to make up our minds.

At a summer church wedding a plump lady was in the pew in front of me. I was wearing a light shawl, as my dress left my shoulders bare, when all of a sudden, the lady's long zipper on the back of her dress split open.

I did drape my shawl around her whispering "your dress opened up" she whispered to her hubby got up and left, but came back quickly wearing another dress, just as the ceremony ended. She was very grateful and no one was the wiser.

That was an easier case.

 

[Sassycakes]

I would have to say something to them,because when they realized what happened they might be devastated. Of course I would tell them privately.

 

[Keesha]

Absolutely. I would definitely tell every single time even if it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Some mistakes people make can be killer funny but I’m the type that does stupid stuff ALL the time

My guy never tells me I’ve got stuff stuck in my teeth or mascara running down my face. It makes him too uncomfortable.

La growl.

 

[SeaBreeze]

I would have to tell them, and would hope they did the same for me.

 

[applecruncher]

I would have told her, as would most people I know. It's a no-brainer; the right thing to do.

Once a co-worker had a monthly "visitor" (unexpected) and she was wearing a beige skirt. I took her aside to tell her privately and she slipped into the restroom to take care of it. Another co-worker lent her a sweater to help camouflage.

 

[Rosemarie]

Yes, whenever I have noticed something like that, I have told the person. They are always grateful.

 

[toffee]

yes yes I would do -- flies undone / skirt in knickers all that ' hope someone told me as well ;

 

[Ronni]

Ive been both the teller and the tellee, on a few occasions. The most recent ones that come to mind is at the grocery store and I was shopping with the sticker tag still on my capris! A very nice lady approached me somewhat hesitantly to tell me, saying she struggled a bit but decided if it were her she would definitely prefer to know. As that is exactly my mindset I thanked her profusely while peeling the tag off my butt!!

I was at a mall and I noticed a woman coming out of the restroom with her skirt looking weird. I purposely watched her till her back was to me and yup, the hem of her skirt was tucked into the back of her underwear. I walked quickly up to her and quietly told her, prefacing my statement with “if it were me I’d want to know, so...”. She was exceedingly grateful.

 

[twinkles]

yes i would tell them i would want to be told if it was me

 

[treeguy64]

When I was pushing a hack, back in college, I was on the corner of Wacker and Michigan, ready to go across the bridge. This tall, beautiful, model-type gal was crossing Wacker, heading to the bridge. She wore a big smile on her face, as she became aware that everyone was looking at her. Her hair was long and flowing, in the Windy City winds, her large, no-bra breasts were keeping time with her pace, under her see-through, red top, and her mini dress......... was caught over her butt, in her panty hose. She wore no panties under them. I have to say that my dilemma, at the moment I saw her, did not include, in any shape, way, or form, whether or not I should tell her about that mini skirt! No, my mind was, definitely, on "other things!"

 

[moviequeen1]

I would say something to the person privately so they know why people were looking at them strangely

 

[StarSong]

I not only would, I have.

 

[JimW]

....if they were walking around with something amiss that would be embarrassing to them if they knew?

Like, a co-worker leaves the restroom with toilet paper stuck to the bottom of his or her shoe and walks around the office like that.

One afternoon at work, a woman from Home Office came for a big meeting.

While a bunch of us were sitting outside on break at the back entrance, she came out of the door to leave and was heading for her car, unaware her panty hose were pulled up over her skirt in back and to one side, the skirt was all pushed way up!

We were aghast; someone asked, "should we run up and tell her?" No one could decide, so she drove off that way.

My opinion was no, I couldn't stand to think how terrible she'd feel and thought (hoped) she was on her way home, anyway.

With the way things are today with all the sexual harassment claims going on, I'm not so sure I would tell a woman in this particular case unless I knew her. If it were just something trivial like tp stuck to her shoe, I might. I try to avoid interacting with people I don't know these days.

 

[Gary O']

With the way things are today with all the sexual harassment claims going on, I'm not so sure I would tell a woman in this particular case unless I knew her. If it were just something trivial like tp stuck to her shoe, I might. I try to avoid interacting with people I don't know these days

reminds me of a taproom scene I created a while back;