Ronni
Well-known Member
- Location
- Nashville TN
I made this poster for a friend, at her request, to help her remind herself to not always put herself last, to not always be selfless, which are things she's struggled with her whole life.
I understand that struggle all too well, having battled the same thing. Part of it for me was some severe co-dependency in my very dysfunctional marriage. Part of it is just who I am, because I am and always have been a helping sort. It's hard wired in me, and just as much a part of me as my hazel eyes and the bump on the bridge of my nose. But there's a balance, and it's taken me a long time to find it, and still sometimes I go out of balance and have to re-center myself.
Do you struggle with this? .
I understand that struggle all too well, having battled the same thing. Part of it for me was some severe co-dependency in my very dysfunctional marriage. Part of it is just who I am, because I am and always have been a helping sort. It's hard wired in me, and just as much a part of me as my hazel eyes and the bump on the bridge of my nose. But there's a balance, and it's taken me a long time to find it, and still sometimes I go out of balance and have to re-center myself.
Do you struggle with this? .
