Your Pets vs Your Guests

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Now you've made them feel bad, Brookswood. Keep in mind they aren't Cane Corsos. They only stand about six inches tall so begging at the table is just the feeling of fur around someone's ankles, jumping up just means paws on the side of a guest's chair, and crotch diving is only a distant dream.
When I had a big dog it was well trained. My 5lb ankle biters not so much 🤣. Those babies are adorable!!
 

Our mini-dachshund is spoiled. I admit it. We don't have friends and relatives in and out frequently like some people do. She's never once been around children. We are simply three devoted adults competing for her affection and that's all she's known.

But once a year we have relatives come through and visit us for a few days on the way to visit their son's family in North Carolina. They don't like dogs.

She acts angry and speaks harshly to her, whenever our dog puts her feet up on her chair asking to be picked up. They are horrified that she begs at the table. We have to spend the weekend sitting in the tiny den because that's the only place with chairs too high for her to jump up on. They've said, "Why don't you put her outside?" and I've explained that she knows to bark to be let back in and she would continue barking until that happens. She's 14 now, toothless, hard of hearing and half blind but they cut her no slack. I'm dreading their next visit in two weeks.

Thoughts?

I’d warn them that your dog is an esteemed elder in your household and you have no intention of adopting whatever their expectations are for dog. only If they can be respectful of your fur baby they are welcome.
 
My son follows Gary Francione and his Abolitionist Approach to animal rights. I haven't gone vegan with him yet, but he has me leaning that way. Are you and your wife vegans?
No, but we eat meat and all kinds of sausage maybe only once a month. The same with eggs. And they are organic. I have great respect for people who succeed in being vegan, unless they think that they are better than people who eat meat. A former female colleague at work was living vegan for years, but had a lot of health problems nevertheless. And she was such a fanatic that she had a poster on the back window of her car "Because you drink milk and eat cheese, cows are dying". In our rural environment in the best case she was laughed at, in the worst, well ...
 

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Now you've made them feel bad, Brookswood. Keep in mind they aren't Cane Corsos. They only stand about six inches tall so begging at the table is just the feeling of fur around someone's ankles, jumping up just means paws on the side of a guest's chair, and crotch diving is only a distant dream.
The left one of these three beauties reminds me vividly of our own female dachshund as I was a kid and young man ❤️.
 

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