Dating Again?

[Patnono]

6 months ago I ended a relationship of nearly 20 years the virus brought everything to a head for Me. He was always overly caring at times, but when the virus hit, he became controlling to where we we’re always arguing about anything. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene? Anyone out there started dating again? Like to hear about your experience? Thanks

 

[Bee]

Once bitten twice shy is my motto.

 

[Patnono]

Once bitten twice shy is my motto.

Thanks

 

[Gary O']

I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene?

I bet debodun is available
I think you'd make a good couple
Lot's in common
Much to talk about
Over.....and over....again

 

[Patnono]

I bet debodun is available
I think you'd make a good couple
Lot's in common
Much to talk about
Over.....and over....again

Who is Debudin?

 

[Gary O']

Who is Debudin?

I don't know (spell check)

 

[Keesha]

Who is Debudin?

She is a member here. Gary ‘might’ be joking.

Did you live with this man for 20 years? Not Gary but your man friend?

 

[Gary O']

Gary ‘might’ be joking

Might?

Moi?

Joke?

 

[Lakeland living]

 

[Keesha]

I guess what confuses me is that you have made many threads and not once have you mentioned a man friend in any of them. You’ve mentioned an ex husband once. You’ve mentioned living in the same house for 20 years which you rented . The landlord was a woman.

Who is this guy you suddenly speak of who you’ve had a 20 year relationship with and why have you never mentioned him before this?

 

[Keesha]

Might?

Moi?

Joke?

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Try and ignore those cute little wings and the ‘butter won’t melt in my mouth’ smile. Just cover the picture.

 

[GeorgiaXplant]

Keesha, I've just thought the very same thought! And isn't Patnono always on the verge of losing her home to increased rent or whatever is the threat du jour? A DD with some kind of health challenge(s), health challenge(s) of her own that make moving/working impossible?

 

[Pepper]

I definitely remember Patnono telling us about her man friend of long standing. Not really telling, more like mentioning.

 

[katlupe]

I thought I started dating again two years ago, but it became a relationship, living apart.

 

[StarSong]

While I can understand loneliness, this doesn't seem to be a prudent time to start casting nets in the dating pool.

 

[mlh]

If Pat is female why would she want to date Deb? When I read the OP it appeared to me that the 20 year relationship was with her husband at the time.

@Patnono I agree with StarSong. I would wait until this pandemic ends or slows way down.

 

[Keesha]

I definitely remember Patnono telling us about her man friend of long standing. Not really telling, more like mentioning.

Ok. I’ve never seen it mentioned anywhere so wasn’t sure what to think.

I definitely remember Patnono telling us about her man friend of long standing. Not really telling, more like mentioning.

I remember Pat saying she was divorced. Even her profile states divorced. In the past couple of years she’s always claimed she lives with her daughter and grandson so if this is a relationship that just ended 6 months ago but was a 20 year relationship, it doesn’t add up. Due to that I wondered about her cognitive ability and like others have mentioned , with the pandemic, meeting new people in person could be dangerous.

 

[grahamg]

My thoughts concerning the OP would be these, (putting aside matters mentioned above I've no idea about):

"If you feel game enough to try to form a new relationship now, be it a virtual one right now if you can't meet due to pandemic restrictions, then why not(?)"

"If someone with all the right assets shipped up at my door", I'm sure I'd take a good look myself, though she'd have to be patient whilst I made my mind up how far I wished to take things forward. !

I hope this is helpful?