Why do women like the scuzzy look of men?

Debby said:
There's a lot worse things you could spend your day looking at you know Denise. And don't diss the pheromones!

Personally, I think what attracts women is not necessarily the looks of a man so much as it's the confidence that he exudes. I think what wise women are looking for is confidence coupled with gentleness. My ex-son law was gentle and had no confidence (which is why my daughter got tired of having to be the strong one or as she phrased it, 'the grown up'). And I remember waaaaaay back when, the first real super crush I had was on a boy that was confident and a total ass. And the guy that I married is confident and kind.
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Can't agree more Debby;) Most of the lookers I met were not keepers. I know because I tried keeping them, LOL!! But seriously, I am getting wiser, now that it's pretty much too late, LOL! But when I was at the doc the other day, there was a tech my age in Imaging. He gave me my IV, and seemed like the quiet type. He was, but he had a dry, sense of humor to go with it. I laughed almost the whole time. I wasn't like, omg, he's so good-looking, he was just the guy gonna stick a needle in me right. But by the time we were done goofing off, including him showing me how to shoot that rubber arm tie thingy into the garbage without shooting yourself in the eye, I had a slight crush on him:) Pretty greyish/blonde hair, average weight, just average, but his personality was so fun. He was confident and kind, both. Hope I see him again, even though I don't want to have to go to the doctor to do it, LOL!!
 

Just plain me said:
did you look for a ring Denise! Hope he is single and he calls!
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He went out of his way to let me know he was widowed a few years ago. He asked me how old I was, and told him 29, LOL! I told him almost 62, and he said we were the same age;) I kind of felt he was flirting a little but he was really a gentleman, and again, just a fun sense of humor;) I just jabber on to whoever I meet sometimes, so I don't remember what brought the subject up;)
 

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